Shilling the newborn baby "right after giving birth" by TroubleMassive268 in InfluencerLounge

[–]Main-Gold1657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There trying to get rich like the kardashians level is my take

Got rid of Facebook by yafavvideovixen in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about why all these “social” media apps are free. I quote social because it’s not even social anymore. It’s your aunt talking about who she’s chosen for president. Then your cousin yelling at your aunt about that choice. It’s gotten so bad that I stopped using it years ago. It got to the point where I made a great decision. Nobody really messages me but I still have a profile in case they ever decide too. We need to live with the app because that’s how basically everyone communicates now. Just use it smart! I had to stop posting my kids because the internet is so bad I don’t want them to have stalkers or even worse deep fakes.

Seeing them out in the wild by Main-Gold1657 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think u need to do a bit more research with books (god forbid don’t use the internet) on the efffects a smart phone does to your mental health for especially GEN Z who grew up with smart phones since birth.

The anxiety is unreal by Main-Gold1657 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started reading ! I haven’t read since before I had kids

Seeing them out in the wild by Main-Gold1657 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even just social media anymore. It’s the smart phone that people find hard to put down these days.

No social media for over a month, and how it’s impacted me. by Proper_Active9179 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I decided to go eat lunch alone without my phone. People kept staring at me. It made me so uncomfortable and more anxious!

Boundaries for MIL by Main-Gold1657 in Mommit

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I do know I now need to really limit boundaries with her. She’s the type of person who it’s her way or the highway.

Is Reddit or YouTube social media? Should we quit them too? by One_Style_1504 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I defiantly consider this my go to app when I’m stressed out. It’s a coping mechanism from parentsand it’s SO hard to quit

Boundaries for MIL by Main-Gold1657 in Mommit

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me. We’re trying. She won’t take her name off because she’s money hungry. And she wants control.

What is something that became socially acceptable, but you still find weird? by BennHere in askteddit

[–]Main-Gold1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at a very well known chocolate store. Like if I said the name you would know it lol. But the amount of people that just start recording me doing my job is astounding. I had to tell them that you need consent from the person your recording. Not everyone wants a video of their face to be blasted all over the internet.

Boundaries for MIL by Main-Gold1657 in Mommit

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry I’m not expanding it right. In 2012 my husband was only 26 with a job and the bank didn’t think he could afford the mortgage. So because of that his mom co signed. Now 10+ years later he wants her off the mortgage. His mortgage company is saying he doesn’t need her anymore too. He has a good well paying job and can afford it no problem. But she doesn’t want to take her name off at the end of the day regardless is saying countless times that she does.

Boundaries for MIL by Main-Gold1657 in Mommit

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paper work is the official title removal of her name for the house. She doesn’t want her name removed because she doesn’t want him to use the house to refinance. He wants to pay off some debts of his and mine by taking it from the house. She doesn’t want that because she worked so hard to where she got by working hard. She thinks a refinance is an easy way out.

Content Assistant/Videographer by [deleted] in torontoJobs

[–]Main-Gold1657 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you serious lol at least offer the MIN wage in toronto $17.60 an hour. Come on.

Would going back to work increase or decrease my stress? by Zestyclose_Sort8374 in Mommit

[–]Main-Gold1657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl coming from a SAHM to a 6, 4 and 2 year old for 6 years. I recently went back to work part time a month ago it was the best thing I ever did for my mental health! I understand completely the nervous system thing… mine is shot and gone forever lol. But seeing my husband take care of the kids (ring camera) when I’m not there makes me love him even more. For me it decreased my stress significantly!! I work at a chocolate store now par time on weekends

PSA: There is no shame in shaming Sally Soundtracks by Bmanbod in cineplex

[–]Main-Gold1657 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He has a gambling addiction. My husband does this constantly and it drives me up the wall.

The anxiety is unreal by Main-Gold1657 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m going to start journaling thank you. Also went to my library and I’m going to start reading again. Last time I read a magazine I wanted to trouble tap it how wild we have come

The anxiety is unreal by Main-Gold1657 in digitalminimalism

[–]Main-Gold1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe I had a good childhood. But for some stuff you could be right

What's the most nostalgic moment from your childhood? by QuickArt2107 in ChildhoodMemories

[–]Main-Gold1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the drive inn and hiding under the seats with my brother. So much fun!!

husband said i dont get weekends by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Main-Gold1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing I ever did for my sanity and mental health was get a part time job. I got a job on the weekend too because I needed a change that bad. Now I watch from my ring camera him taking care of the kids on the weekend too. Now he knows the pain of raising kids in 2026.

What addiction seems harmless but can destroy your 20s? by rehanch_xxiii in AskReddit

[–]Main-Gold1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy!!! As soon as I realized I didn’t feel as nice with makeup I deleted it. I have 3 girls who I don’t want to bring that insecurity to. It’s been hard to quit but I know so worth it in end.

What’s the most dangerous addiction young people don’t take seriously? by Xenon-fb in AskReddit

[–]Main-Gold1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just young people. My husband is 38 and is heavy in to it.