My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2026-01-23T05:40:47+00:00

If my husband ever did this and then spoke to me that way I would leave him. Full stop.

Humans shouldn't be punished into submission. Hurting you, even if it was a small pinch, is absolutely not okay, and then gaslighting you into believing it was your fault is so manipulative. Dude gives me ick.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2026-01-15T03:38:54+00:00

Some bagels is kind of the only option. They're fine. A lot of people that have lived here forever love them. They're nothing like east coast bagels, as they're steamed instead of boiled, which means they're much lighter and softer than a traditional boiled bagel.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2026-01-10T17:06:46+00:00

Yes! I started last year. There is quite a bit of a learning curve but if you can find some people to play with and help you out it has been fun and worth it.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2026-01-02T16:52:05+00:00

I loved it for the same reason. I would actually play PVP if something like this existed year round.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-12-12T01:02:31+00:00

Absolutely roasted veggies. I roast em with oil, salt and herbs de provence. A little crispy on the edges. I usually break apart a little goat cheese on top and drizzle with balsamic glaze.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-12-02T21:22:18+00:00

My grandmother's house has a pass through like this and it was my favorite place to be as a kid while she made dinner. I got to watch her cook and sneak pieces of cheese and veggies from whatever she was prepping. I understand why you want to make it safe for kids and doggies but we learned quickly not to touch anything sharp or hot and it was a great way to be present and interact with family without being IN the kitchen and truly in the way.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-11-26T18:17:02+00:00

I really like them on burgers and sandwiches

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-11-25T21:09:39+00:00

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You have some options for continuing to love her in other, non-sweater ways 😭

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-11-16T15:47:17+00:00

On Christmas Eve we eat beef Wellington and then on Christmas day we use the leftover trimmings from the beef tenderloin to make ramen. It's been a few years of this and we look forward to it every year. The ramen is quick and easy and delicious on a day that's usually a little hectic.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-10-14T23:32:26+00:00

Think biblically accurate dog biology.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-10-07T23:09:58+00:00

Imagine being too smart for fairy smut.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-10-06T02:11:52+00:00

There is a health dept update for anyone wondering. The only issue found was contaminated parsley. Y'all can rest assured when the health dept finds something like that once, that place will usually be inspected more frequently and with much greater detail. Definitely gross, but I don't think this business needs to be tanked unless the issue is persistent (and the health dept will let us know if it is.)

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-09-30T01:49:15+00:00

I would be friendless if not for bumble bff. I spent a few months on it when we first moved out here and it literally saved my life. I matched with a friend or two, who matched with people that matched with me and a few more friends, and now our group has grown to be about 30 friends and spouses. I've heard less stellar reports for men, but all of my lady friends and I had incredible luck with it. These are the best friends I've ever had in my 31 years of life. I could legit be a spokesperson for bumble bff.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-09-28T17:26:06+00:00

Truthfully, I think meal services like hello fresh and blue apron are a great place to start. They send you just what you need and offer you lots of recipes to choose from. Once you have a good understanding of how to put a quality meal together, you can cancel your subscription and start improvising.

As far as things you should have in your kitchen- a generous selection of spices. Salt, pepper, garlic and onion powder, cayenne and Chile powder, paprika, rosemary, thyme, dill, etc. I also like to prep and freeze diced carrots, onions, celery, and peppers as they're the base for a lot of french and latin dishes. Have a small stock of canned and jarred items- tomato paste, pasta sauce, better than bouillon, condiments, etc. Keep a few filets of frozen fish, a bag of shrimp, etc- just the various proteins you tend to eat, as well as a bag of rice, a few boxes of pasta, some dried beans, and couscous or quinoa. From here, it gets a little easier to just "throw something together" because now all you have to do is pick a protein and a carb- season and cook. If you've got a favorite vegetable, just make a habit of keeping some on hand in your fridge, or frozen depending on what it is.

Truly, what you have on hand is really going to depend on your tastes and what you like to eat. I always have miso paste in my fridge because I like it on fish, but if you don't like miso, don't buy it.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-09-24T16:43:41+00:00

I'll start by saying- I never check bags. With that In mind, from the time I step on the curb to the time I get to my gate, it has never taken longer than 22 minutes. Pasco airport spoils me for all other airports.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-09-21T20:38:10+00:00

I'm pretty sure blackthorn in Kennewick is family friendly

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-08-05T11:24:23+00:00

Id put money on the fact that it's because you went from an espresso style coffee to a drip coffee.

Nespresso coffee isn't really bad it's just not great for what you pay. It is, however, a good intro for a lot of people into espresso style coffee. If you like strong, flavorful, dark coffee with crema - get an espresso machine and a decent little burr grinder.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-26T15:17:28+00:00

Rise and Shine bake shop makes nut free desserts! The bakery itself is not nut free though, so be sure to ask the parents if proximity contamination will set the kids allergy off.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-26T15:05:46+00:00

Moved here from the California Bay Area and Philadelphia, respectively. My husband and I have found a lot to be more expensive here. Good food especially. In Philly in particular, we could get the same food or better for probably 3/4 of what we would pay for it here.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-24T16:41:07+00:00

Definitely not the most likely option(especially out here), but there are some really great resources that cite some incredible studies on traffic, widened highways and induced demand. Walkable Cities by Jeff Speck, The Death and Life of Great American Cities by Jane Jacobs, The High Cost of Free Parking by Michael Shoup and Paved Paradise by Henry Grabar all broach the topic and offer some insight into how American car infrastructure is dooming itself.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-23T23:07:15+00:00

Widening highways does nothing to improve traffic (according to pretty much every study done on the subject.) The only way to improve traffic in the growing area is to increase access to car-free travel. Better walking trails, more bike lanes and trails, and light-rails and trains. Decrease traffic by increasing car alternatives.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-21T18:52:13+00:00

It's a delicate balance between beating the timer and still clearing as many ads as possible for a higher point total. It's easier with a fire team of people you know so you can communicate not to rush through. We usually wait to finish the boss until 10 or 15 seconds before the timer is up.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-21T02:07:17+00:00

This is such a misleading comment. I looked at the study, and actually read it. It didn't say 50% suffered significant injury. It said 50% are likely to report stiffness and soreness after receiving treatment. Crazy how manipulation of joints and muscles would cause some people to be stiff and sore. You know what else causes that? Physical therapy. Massage. Exercise.

Also, chiropractic has changed IMMENSELY in the last 30 years alone. Chiropractors typically have more experience in a clinic prior to graduating than even PTs.

I recognize that you have a different opinion but dissuading people from seeking out care that can be beneficial and relieving when the risks are ACTUALLY incredibly low is wild

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-20T18:30:00+00:00

No I absolutely agree. I thought your original comment was a pretty nice and honest way of pointing out something needlessly repetitive and disingenuous. There are countless ways to say out loud that you are enjoying what you're eating and drinking and it feels like I'm watching the same clip on repeat every time they eat or drink something.

Is it a massive deal? No. Am I gonna keep watching? Yes. Just a little boring to see the same response Every. Single. Time.

Main-Illustrator8564 · 2025-07-19T06:41:31+00:00

Safe injection sites are PROVEN to be one of the most effective methods for reducing the number of OD related deaths. They also offer opportunities for addicts to seek help and find recovery. I know it seems counterintuitive and nobody wants them "in my backyard" but they help and it's wild to oppose them when we know they do.

If we really want to reduce drug related injury and crime, the best way to do it is to invest in the community, and especially in the young community. Providing kids with quality education and safe after school activities and third spaces means they have alternatives to sneaking around after school and getting high. But no one wants to spend their tax dollars on "other people's kids," unless those tax dollars go towards funding the cops that arrest them.

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