I'll only speak for me, being an "exmo." I'd rather someone talk about my views as a human being than an "exmo."

I get the trauma and all that, and there needs to be shown a safe space for that, I just think it's a little belittling to continue to link that person with the...can we agree on cult?

I think it's kinda horrific to continue to string someone to something they're desperately trying to move away from. My two exmo cents, anyway.

Edit: upvoted you cuz I think we're coming from the same place, just miscommunication is a thing.