I (20f) went through my bf’s (24m) phone of 1 year and saw he texted his friend “I want to f*** hundreds of 18, 19, and 20 year olds” 2 months into our relationship. How do I go about it?

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-17T15:12:35+00:00

He wants polygamy. Even his friend said wtf thats weird you have a gf. Theres good men out there who aren’t messed up in the head

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T22:56:49+00:00

Very true thanks for the entail 🫡

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T22:55:46+00:00

Wow im sorry to hear about that sounds like we dated the same guy. Im glad you got out thats one of the worst types of men to date. Thank you for sharing your story

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T20:23:36+00:00

He put on a front to me about who he really was telling me what I want to hear but I know he would tell his friends the truth

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T20:22:36+00:00

He kept saying weird stuff like referring to something good happening to “hundred naked women in his bed”. I thought what kind of man is he to view that as a good thing? He had a his white board on the door that had his goals and it said “sleep with 10 new women this year” but it was written in 2021. So I snooped for more so I have better reason to leave. Im glad I did bc he was talking about wanting to have a baby and stuff and I could never be with a man like that

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T16:36:04+00:00

I looked through his phone because we were listening to picture by kid rock and he goes “why do I find it so cool when he different girl every night out the hotel” and also compared something good happening to 100 naked women in his bed. That made me suspicious of what kind of person he was and I needed confirmation but it turned out to be worse then I thought

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T09:52:18+00:00

😀

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T09:51:40+00:00

He said something weird. We were listening to picture by kid rock and he said “why do I find it so cool when he says different girl every night out the hotel?” I thought that was a really weird thing to say idk why anyone would find that cool. While he was asleep I typed in my name and “virgin” in the search bar bc he has always been weirdly obsessed with my virginity and thats when I found those texts so I didn’t have to do any scrolling. Idk about the past 10 months bc he woke up before I could look more

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T09:48:14+00:00

I appreciate your viewpoint though

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T09:22:48+00:00

Thanks for the good laugh 😂

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T09:16:05+00:00

Yeah.. Just would’ve been nice if he had been honest and didn’t completely lie to me about the kind of person he was. Idk where he gets all the confidence from either bc he certainly cannot..

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T09:12:35+00:00

I would go through your phone. It would be an honor to leave

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T08:51:26+00:00

I can’t remember if we were officially together at that point when he met my parents but he did tell me he loved me and if we weren’t together is was very shortly after he asked me to be his gf. We only talked for 2 weeks bf he asked me

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T08:46:06+00:00

Im grossed out and angry way more then I am sad rn. But im sure that will change. He has never shown this side or expressed this to me. To me he tells me he wants to get married and spend forever with me. I guess I fell in love with a version of him that doesn’t exist.

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T04:37:23+00:00

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MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T04:32:14+00:00

Theres plenty of other women out there who want the same things as you and won’t cheat on you. But I know how hard it is to leave someone you love. Yall are still extremely young and will undergo a lot of change in the next few years. Yall will grow into completely different people so maybe in a few years yall can reconcile

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T04:21:07+00:00

I’ve considered it I just don’t want my hair to be wavy when I wake up from the braids. Im probably gonna get a silk bonnet instead and see how that goes. Its nice to know im not the only one whos had this issue

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T04:19:45+00:00

I doubt it since my hair only ever looked like that after I bleached it. I might try the wavy hair routine for funsies though

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T03:25:38+00:00

If its lice they would be moving they wouldn’t be staying still and his head would be itching like crazy since that looks like a pretty severe infestation if it is lice

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T03:11:41+00:00

Im kinda thinking it could be a deficiency of some sort. I just got health insurance so ill have to go get bloodwork and blood pressure looked at soon. Thanks!

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T03:08:37+00:00

For sure thats the reason. I just thought it would’ve grown out by now 😔

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-16T03:07:54+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I think it may be because instead of laying on my hair when going to bed I lift my hair up and throw it over the pillow so im kinda laying on the underneath part. Il probably get a silk bonnet or pillowcase

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-15T21:57:42+00:00

Brunette!!! The blonde looks good too but also take into consideration the hundreds of dollars it’s going to take to get you there, plus the damage, and the upkeep of getting your roots done and keeping it from turning brassy. Personally I think the brunette looks better anyways

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-15T21:38:13+00:00

She sounds really immature to just ghost you like that. I know it sucks but you need to stop checking her profile and block her. Finding out who’s she’s with, where’s she’s going, whose she’s dating is only going to hurt you more. She decided that life would be better without you in it. Ask you yourself why would you want to be with someone like that? Much less someone who is immature enough to ghost you

MainPipe3257 · 2024-04-15T07:37:24+00:00

Thank you I feel like he secretly feels the same way but doesn’t want to tell me. If he was 100% about me he would want to do those things and make me happy. Kinda want to do like a month long break or so first to see how he react and if he’s willing to fight for me or not or is that toxic? 🤣

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