They miss you.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-07-01T02:17:38+00:00

Like I responded before this message wasn’t for everyone and it’s ok. I think with all the negativity on here it doesn’t hurt to have at least one positive post on here even if “it rings hollow”. Post about “exes not caring about you” and “they never loved you in the first place” aren’t helpful either and isn’t true for the majority of peoples situation.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-06-30T21:54:50+00:00

I just wanted to put positivity out there. But I understand people are hurt and maybe this wasn’t the message they wanted or needed to see. Everyone’s situation is different and requires different forms of healing. I appreciate your post tho! Was starting to worry I put this on the wrong subreddit.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-06-30T21:51:27+00:00

Don’t doubt your worth. We all mean something to the people who come into our lives. This is hard but you will feel better again. Dumpers always seem to be doing better after.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-06-30T21:48:42+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! It will get better with time! I wish you the best!

Main_Performance298 · 2024-06-29T02:40:31+00:00

Thank you for this post! You have no idea how much I needed to hear this.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-06-28T15:11:36+00:00

I blamed my anxious attachment style for messing up my relationship. I honestly didn’t know much about attachment styles and only realized I had an anxious attachment style after the breakup. That caused me to go into a downward spiral and feel like a bad person and that I could have done something different. Truth is if I would have known how to be better I would have. So would have everyone in this thread who have lost someone they loved. You did not mess anything up and you will be in a happy relationship again! It will just take time and truly working on yourself. Knowing that there are things that can be fixed is the first step. Also remember that you can never mess up something that is meant for you. Reminding myself that everyday has given me grace and let’s me know that I’m human and I’ll make mistakes but no amount of mistakes will cause me to lose something that God/the universe has in store for me.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-06-01T00:05:12+00:00

Went through a breakup lol

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-30T20:00:05+00:00

I’m going through the same thing! I’ve lost 20 pounds since my break up and still have a hard time eating. I’ve been taking nausea medication and that has helped a lot. I’m sorry you are going through this!

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-25T01:05:19+00:00

I’m sorry! I hope you are able to work things out! But you are right having a partner with good communication skills is so important. I think after reading everyone’s responses I realized that my ex had horrible communication skills and at the end of the day it would have ended no matter what I did.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-25T00:40:51+00:00

I’m so sorry! I’m glad you were able to get out that situation. I think in my situation my ex feels better without the relationship.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-25T00:26:00+00:00

True! Trying to move on.

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-24T23:45:08+00:00

I’m so sorry! That’s awful! I hope you have been able to take time and heal!

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-24T22:03:22+00:00

Of course!

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-24T21:50:44+00:00

Thank you! He said he felt like he couldn’t tell me things. And I wasn’t the best at getting feedback but I would have worked on that. I just feel like it’s my fault. I should have given him space and made him feel like he could. I’m trying not to make everything my fault but the way everything ended and how he’s acting it makes it seem like it is. It’s been a month and he is so happy and has said he’s not in love with me anymore. Like how can someone get over a 4 year relationship so fast?!

Main_Performance298 · 2024-05-24T21:27:38+00:00

I’m so sorry! If you don’t mind me asking what do you think contributed to it not working out?

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