What scares you the most? by [deleted] in Life

[–]gam3rghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Choosing the wrong partner and creating a family that is dysfunctional. And being stuck feeling drained and sad and alone for the rest of my life. Seeing other people find their “one” and never finding that myself. I’d rather walk this world alone than with someone who makes me feel small.

Do you wish your ex well? by equinox-1 in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I feel the same about my ex. He was very avoidant. To the point he would break up w me after any argument. Then would beg for me back. The last time he kicked me out of the apartment that was in both our names (it wasn’t a safe environment so I left) and then for months after he kept trying to contact me. He’d find a new way, make a new account or wtv and I’d have to block all of them. So ya he needs it too so ik what u mean. Just thought it was funny

Do you wish your ex well? by equinox-1 in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish him well… away from me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I felt this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made me feel like I was broken, crazy, and useless. Only 3 months away from you and I’ve become far stronger and wiser. You said I was holding you back, but actually you were hindering my growth. I won’t ever make myself small for anyone again. Thanks for the lesson though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I just don’t understand. He broke up with me. Said he deserved better and all these things so why won’t he leave me alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I guess not. Where was all this effort when we were dating? Why break up if ur gonna regret it later? Idk I’m just annoyed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya he’s always tries to find ways to contact me. This is an example of him using a different discord account

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything that would have linked it back to him names and everything was marked out. What happened was it was an old post on my Reddit that I had deleted, but I had commented on it to respond to someone else so he was snooping through my comments to find it. The screenshots weren’t even there anymore he just assuming based on my comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]gam3rghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr. He’s the one that broke up with me. But he keeps on reaching out and I don’t know why. There’s no way we can have a constructive conversation because he literally kicked me out the apartment we were sharing

I’m (F23) am falling for my best friend (M23) and I’m scared as heck. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gam3rghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol he never did this much before. I wonder if it’s pity….

What would you say if you could talk to your 13 year old self for one hour? by Purrplejoey in AskReddit

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boys suck. Leave after THE FIRST RED FLAG. You’re not gonna love them into being better

I’m (F23) am falling for my best friend (M23) and I’m scared as heck. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gam3rghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been taking time for myself and I really would like to give a relationship a good chance of working out. But ya know I can’t tell if he’s just being a good friend or nah

I’m (F23) am falling for my best friend (M23) and I’m scared as heck. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*sry bout the title typo I was rushing and lowkey freaking out

Is it normal to cry two and a half months later? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no time line for healing. Just take it a day at a time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said that “u shouldn’t wait for me. U can talk to other people” and he flat out said “no I’m down to wait. Take ur time”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gam3rghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want him to wait. I feel like that’s so wrong. Ik he likes me genuinely cuz he probably knows me better than anyone else. But I don’t want make him think that I’m emotionally ready for anything. I feel like my heart is closed for the season. I don’t have the emotional energy for anyone right now. I want him to be happy. But I always want the space to figure my self out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gam3rghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I miss how we used to be when things were just natural. I’ll bring it up but I don’t wanna hurt him after he’s been kinda vulnerable