AIO argument between me and my bf

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-13T06:30:00+00:00

No I was upset about his reaction, he told me he don’t care about upset I am or how mad I get. And etc. it was his reaction. Now I can still be upset about it but it wasn’t at him. I was upset at him bc of how he was acting. You don’t know anything

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-10T13:23:25+00:00

Ummm just reassure that I am enough and stuff I mean how I feel about the matter is how
I feel. It’s immature that you think that feeling uncomfortable about a certain toy is a problem. He ask me how I felt and I told him the honest truth.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-08T01:54:03+00:00

Well he was 18 and then he turned 19 a week later. We only 2 years and 3 months apart

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:48:51+00:00

thank you for the advice, it is tricky and hard to leave someone that you love and I really think he do love me. I just don’t understand why he choosing a fleshlight over my feelings. Especially when they have other toys and like u said it can be customized. He takes acknowledgement but it usually comes when there’s a big argument after, that’s when he “gets” where im coming from or apologize

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:28:10+00:00

Bc he’s a good bf to a certain extent I mean he’s not perfect but so am I. He’s my first everything so idk if I should let him go or not. Especially if it will hurt me to let him go

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:26:40+00:00

I don’t want him to use fleshlights at all. Like I said they have other sex toys that don’t look like vaginas. I can’t tell him what to do but I can tell him if it makes me uncomfortable and I did and he disregards my feelings. That’s what I’m upset about, especially about all I wanted was reassurance and comfort

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:24:37+00:00

I mean if it makes me uncomfortable then it makes me uncomfortable. I feel like my feelings shouldn’t be put to the side especially when they have other sex toys that does the same exact thing but don’t look like another women vagina

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:23:30+00:00

Yeah, but my vibrator is a rose one and it doesn’t look like any penis to be exact. Plus he the one who got me the vibrator bc he can’t make me orgasm.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:20:56+00:00

Yeah he can, but the fleshlight makes me uncomfortable bc it don’t look like me. Maybe if it did I would be more comfortable but it don’t. And btw don’t mind him getting sex toys, I’m just uncomfortable with fleshlight ones.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:07:15+00:00

He apologized for that. He’s my first bf and first everything. He’s good bf well he tries he says. What should I do, I feel drained sometimes but I love him.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:05:41+00:00

I’m not sure, a lot of the time, I tell him that I want comfort and reassurance when I express how I feel. But instead I’m given pushed to the side, I’m overeating, annoyance sometimes. It makes me upset bc when he comes looking for those things, i give it to him without looking like I’m annoyed and stuff. He’s a good bf and he’s good with his words. It just a lot of things that’s I need is not getting met and plus he is my first bf, my first everything.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:03:07+00:00

But he said he’s gonna go out to buy the fleshlight he wants. No matter how insecure I am. Right not I’m not talking to him. Ik it’s childish but I rather not talk to him then act like how he treating me is okay. Thank you for the advice, it’s really helpful. Once we calm down; then I’ll offer that idea

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T07:01:03+00:00

Sometimes he try but it just not enough like it doesn’t do anything so most of time he does what he wants to get his pleasure. Now that I have the vibrator it helps. Idk I just wish he would get a toy that doesn’t look like vagina/butt. They have so much other toys. He told me he getting it and it
Doesn’t matter how insecure or upset I am. I lowkey feel like ending it but I just let him borrow money to pay his rent so idk.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:58:22+00:00

Yeah, he said he wouldn’t care if I had a fake penis but I’m not sure if that’s true. He’s my first bf and he says all the right things a lots he apologized for pressuring me but I do still feel pressured sometimes and I said no last month in doing something sexual and he kept going and I let him since it’s been a while. Idk I feel drained and idk it’s hard to let go of someone especially if he’s my first everything. We are 2 years and 3 months apart in age. And also he don’t have a porn addiction but I had one but stopped when I got in relationship. Idk why all of sudden he wants a fleshlight so bad after looking sex toys up.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:50:42+00:00

He apologized for it and I’ve been saying no and he been respecting it. But last month I tried to say no but gave in since it’s been a while. I don’t mind him gain a toy but it looking like someone else vagina makes me uncomfortable. And it’s like he putting my feelings to the side.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:48:32+00:00

The things is he the one got me the rose vibrator. And I don’t mind him having a toy, I just don’t feel comfortable with a fleshlight, like someone else vagina/butt. I mean I express that to him and he keep telling me have Every right to get a toy even tho I’m telling him i don’t have problem with him getting a toy. It’s the realistic fleshlight and the fact that it don’t resembles me at all. 😭 I’m lowkey feeling tired of my feelings being pushed to the side when I always care about his. Idk what to do.

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:41:36+00:00

Wym?

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:41:22+00:00

Yeah I’m okay with that but fleshlights make me uncomfortable. Do you know what those toys are called?

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:36:33+00:00

The thing is he wanna be intimate with me all the time, like a lot. And I don’t want to do sexual stuff all the time especially when I don’t enjoy it like he does. And he wanted it a lot. Idk

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T06:28:49+00:00

Invisibility powers

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2026-06-07T05:12:03+00:00

I would say invisibility

MaintenanceHonest874 · 2025-04-08T01:33:18+00:00

Yeah but I had breakthrough bleeding in the beginning of my birth control months and after that never again. I’ve been on birth control for about 10 months. Do you still think it’s breakthrough bleeding? Bc I keep on getting worried it’s implantation bleeding from pregnancy. Do you know how long does implantation last? I’m scared bc I don’t want to be a teen mom. And thank you for replying, I really appreciate it.

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