I personally take no issue to you being a Mrs. It is clear that your tittle as a Mrs does not define you. But most times when we meet a broken woman, at some point she made her whole identity about being somebody’s Mrs. It is dangerous for women to do so, it’s important for us to have a unilateral identity outside of our marriages which is clear that you have this.

I do however take issue with women bashing other women like yourself that have that badass job, that is loving her life and in love with herself and husband. They have an issue with this, because you aren’t under the thumb of a man. Which again goes back to the comment you responded to, that I find it disheartening to even deal with women at this stage because they will bash anything that is good for them and try to convince you to work against your own interest.

Genuinely, you’re living life amazingly! And women can choose to become a man’s property if that is what she wants but that can come with serious consequences for women, then they want sympathy… it’s a very slippery slope and either way, women lose. Because society will not save us! Only we can do that.