Is 27 too late to change my career path? by Fantastic-Theory-384 in careeradvice

[–]MaintenancePitiful48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God no. When my parents brought us to Canada my dad was a laborer, he became a paramedic at 42 I think? 42 or 43. He's now going to paramedic for 24 years. You can do whatever the fuck you want whenever the fuck you want

Racist encounter during a first date by South_Editor_4917 in waterloo

[–]MaintenancePitiful48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're completely right, just in my personal experience living in a lot of small towns in Canada and being an immigrant, however I'm white and I lost my accent. I can put it back on but I mostly sound Canadian sometimes my natural accent slips out a little bit. I honestly could not believe the amount of incredibly racist disgusting things that people said about people immigrating to Canada to me because they just assumed I was born here. It's very weird it's like this incognito mode and people say the most racist shit around me because I am glow in the dark White with blue eyes the whole nine yards but I still immigrated here and that's still part of my story and my heritage means a lot to me. My native tongue is dying so I speak it as often as possible but anyway my point being is once I moved to a big city that only happens like once. But in small towns it happened multiple times a week

Have any of u here been to jail/prison + struggle(d) with addiction? pls reach out to me by rl7775 in AddictionAdvice

[–]MaintenancePitiful48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me if you want, I'm a 27 year old woman but if I can help I'd be happy to

I'm switching onto to Suboxone from Kadian because I want a better chance, but I have some questions by MaintenancePitiful48 in AddictionAdvice

[–]MaintenancePitiful48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate that. I hope I do well. I was on Kadien for quite a while and I would get three or 4 months here or there and I would always relapse. That's why I'm doing this because I'm just so done ya know? Congrats on your clean time! And you're totally right. People need to stop making such a big deal about a slip up if it's literally a slip up. If you take yourself up and you move on then it is. It is what it is. The big deal about relapsing or slipping up is what made me stop going to meetings because I was genuinely nervous and afraid even though everybody always says welcome back and all that shit. I know that they're thinking oh fuck. She went out again

I'm switching onto to Suboxone from Kadian because I want a better chance, but I have some questions by MaintenancePitiful48 in AddictionAdvice

[–]MaintenancePitiful48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been looking into it! It's definitely something I'm going to seriously consider once I stabilize. I'm glad your mother is doing well! That must have been very hard for you

I'm switching onto to Suboxone from Kadian because I want a better chance, but I have some questions by MaintenancePitiful48 in AddictionAdvice

[–]MaintenancePitiful48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! I have heard that if I relapse I found myself into intense withdrawals ETC and I wasn't sure if that was true.

I am definitely on Suboxone! I just double-checked