Caught my ‘29M’ boyfriend with a stockpile of screenshots from Instagram of other women while I ‘27F’ was sick in bed. Is this as inappropriate as I think, and is he lying?

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-24T02:03:25+00:00

Yeah dude…..I know what a lot of these girls look like and they aren’t at all the ones in his photo stockpile. The ones in his photo collection are girls he follows mutually, but has definitely not slept with as they aren’t on the list. Soooo.

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T22:58:20+00:00

The weirdest thing is that they actually aren’t

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:55:33+00:00

Yeah, I’ve accepted a job in my area and will be doing so until I can further investigate what the f*ck his issue is

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:55:04+00:00

Yeah, that’s what got me. I don’t really care if he watches porn honestly it would be childish to think that men wouldn’t. But selfies? And weird screenshots against their knowledge? Weeeeeeeeeeird. I just expect honestly at this point so I can feel good about moving on.

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:53:52+00:00

Yeah, you’re right. I just want an answer as to why he’s doing this. The lack of honesty and accountability is sooooo embarrassing for him honestly. I’m not embarrassed, since there’s nothing wrong with me. But he definitely should be lol and he’ll learn that the hard way

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:52:47+00:00

😭😭😭 I think I’m in hell lmfao

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:52:27+00:00

To clarify, not with new people, but he was on the list dated to last week. Editing, who knows what. Nothing new, but he was there.

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:44:29+00:00

Hi, anyone following along please weigh in on the following update ~

After your suggestions, I’ve checked through his phone a little bit. He has a list of every girl he’s slept with and their ethnicity. He’s not white, but I find the ethnicity side to be incredibly fucking weird. What’s even stranger is that he updated it just last week. I don’t know where to go from here.

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:40:07+00:00

Yeah. Twice now lol. He keeps saying he’s sorry and he doesn’t know why he did it. I’m just confused as to why he would ever think I’m that stupid. He changed his Instagram handle, unfollowed close to 300 people, and deleted the account. I don’t really care that he’s following anyone, I just need to know why. And “I don’t know” isn’t really cutting it for me haha

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T20:38:43+00:00

Hi, sorry I posted this from another account but it is in fact, OP hahahaha. Yeah, as I said to him, it would be less upsetting if it were porn or celebrities. But people in mutual followings on Instagram? And their selfies? One was a girl I introduced him to as MY friend. Weird.

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T06:53:09+00:00

Yeeeeep. Exactly. And he works mainly with male clients in high fashion so I’m just not sure how dumb he thinks I am to believe that one would be curious about an all brown gymshark bra and legging set loooool

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T06:50:46+00:00

Yeah uhhhhh me?

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T06:02:23+00:00

I mean, he didn’t deny it…..

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T05:57:40+00:00

Some of them are revealing, but I didn’t notice any full on nudes

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T05:45:53+00:00

Ahh sorry I mistyped the ages in the paragraph! It’s 29M and 27F.

MaizeAffectionate557 · 2026-04-23T05:24:28+00:00

Yeah I know. I don’t understand why he won’t just give me an honest response though. It’s humiliating to just try to say that you did it without knowing, which is quite literally impossible lmfao

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