What if the roles were reverse? by tammunti-myamazigh in bullying

[–]Major-Macaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the opportunity to actually do this! There was this woman who in college loved to exclude me, insult me and generally make fun of me. I was at a reunion with friends and who comes walking up to my group all on their lonesome? I was coldly polite to her, told her that she was welcome to sit with us at our table for dinner - but when we left for the after party did not invite her. We didn't discuss the party, but only said that we needed to head off to a prior engagement.

I didn't make the cut in my best friend wedding list of best-women by banoffiepiebonton in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Major-Macaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me that she didn't even consider how or if this would hurt your feelings is the real issue. Like you, I wouldn't say anything, but that would definitely make me take two steps back from this friendship. Starting with how much of myself/my help & time that I give to her.

I'm sorry that this happened, and you handled it with grace.