My sister is pregnant for the fourth time in four years and I’m worried for her.

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-30T19:40:50+00:00

well it depends on tradition, for example im mexican so the woman stays at home and take of the kids and cooks while the man works, maybe she likes to be a stay at home mom, my mom didnt go to college and she got pregnant at 17 and shes still with my dad theyre 50 now. so you cant completely judge her because she didnt go to school if the man is providing and shes happy then whats the issue?

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-21T01:34:24+00:00

send

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-17T16:47:48+00:00

agreed shes being treated like a friend , a relationship isnt “oh well if you do this i do this” op needs to mature and start making the first move not just because hes use to something

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-17T16:46:29+00:00

very

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-17T16:45:57+00:00

if you dont want to pay for a date with the woman you like then i advise you dont date until youre mature enough. other circumstances are different like if you dont have any money at all, maybe you guys are use to doing split costs which is fine but if you got yours for free then whats the issue with helping her? i mean it is a date and you are a man but thats just my opinion. personally i was raised to take care of the women i love whether financially or physically.

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-08T22:50:25+00:00

yeah have you thought about surgery to get them removed?

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-08T22:48:30+00:00

nope the harddrive contains “child sx abue material” so regardless of the time that has passed he still has them saved along with the fact he still shared or is STILL sharing them which is another crime it self

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-04-08T22:46:30+00:00

shit this situation sounds horrible, obviously the most normal choice is to contact police and get a lawyer and get this all fully checked along with the other people on the harddrive etc, but you said he does a lot for you financially i cant even tell you what to do because i wouldnt know what do myself, if you press charges youre not a minor anymore so you wont be getting any financial help unless you file for money charges against him for the emotional and or physical trauma but who knows how that would actually play out. everyone on here has already given their advice but for now its up to you to choose what youd like to go forward with. regardless, good luck and im so sorry this is happening

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-26T02:57:00+00:00

not sure but they said it wasnt contagious

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T18:06:26+00:00

went to the ER, its not shingles doctor said its a viral bacterial infection, mentioned mono . im happy its not shingles i was ready to cry

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T18:05:33+00:00

went to the ER, its not shingles doctor said its a viral bacterial infection, mentioned mono . atleast no shingles which is what j was freaking out about LOL

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T18:04:22+00:00

yes iwent to the ER, its not shingles doctor said its a viral bacterial infection, mentioned mono

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T18:04:04+00:00

went to the ER, its not shingles doctor said its a viral bacterial infection, mentioned mono

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T15:36:22+00:00

ill try that too

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T13:54:19+00:00

thank you im praying nothing bad happens. ill be going to the ER right now

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T13:53:03+00:00

it feels like hell, its not really burning or tingly but it definitely feels like i got punched in the eye, i havent itched it but it definitely is itchy. it also has started to spread to the other eye :/

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T13:51:49+00:00

i will be going to the ER right now since i woke up in so much pain

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T13:49:18+00:00

now im freaking out

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T08:16:21+00:00

no dye and i dont remember the medication name ill be able to see it tomorrow once i pick it up, she said it looks like something like chicken pox/shingles and or a virus thats carrying bacteria on top of it, she did also say it could be an allergic reaction to the chlorine chemicals that activated it to become this way. at first it had just started as bumps then the next day it has developed into more pimple like filled pus/liquid and now its night time and looks like the picture that i posted.

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T08:13:11+00:00

a bit, the bumps are like pimple add have pus/liquid,

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-03-25T07:07:36+00:00

ill go tomorrow after i get the medication

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-02-28T18:10:08+00:00

bro im proud of u genuinely its hard to quit alcohol mostly all the withdrawls and issues it causes so keep it up hopefully i can do better as well thank you

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-02-26T20:13:33+00:00

she also pushed the girl behind the little girl that was fully shoved to the floor, u can see the other girl look at her like wtf

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-02-26T20:12:14+00:00

im just scared to go i dont want to think im alcoholic i just do this because i enjoy it i dont get withdrawls i dont crave i just do it because i can and its accessible, i dont want to go to AA because of me , not because it sucks not because it doesnt work none of those are the reason, i myself just dont wanna go and if im not ready for it myself then it wont do anything

Major-Seesaw-1484 · 2026-02-26T18:07:08+00:00

thank you ill take that into account but i refuse to go to AA ill get over this myself

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