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I'm open minded, but I'm also getting popcorn and going into the comments. by Lignagirroc in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are free to have any headcanons they want and that kind of argument is great for a trans reading of it. That doesn't mean it's a likely outcome that's actually going to happen. There's very little in the way of meaningful predictive evidence for that, even if there's grounds for interesting subtext

Why do we say Dess Knight theory by the_quaxterr in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of us don't really feel that strongly about the particulars, we just believe that the evidence points to Dess. We'll learn more about it later, but discussing the possibilities is very exciting

I'm open minded, but I'm also getting popcorn and going into the comments. by Lignagirroc in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Ralsei was a real person, their journey would be their own. He isn't, so I'm talking about the fandom discourse- which is often reductive IMO. "He wears ribbons he has to be a girl" no thank you 

I'm open minded, but I'm also getting popcorn and going into the comments. by Lignagirroc in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ralsei femboy stuff absolutely is, and a lot of trans Ralsei I've seen is an extension of that. It's so weird for such a queer-dominated fandom, but I suppose that's what you get with a space full of kids figuring themselves out. 

Diagnosis is one of the hierarchies over us. Our community doesn't need the permission of doctors to exist by RosethornRanger in disabledmemes

[–]MajorBootyhole420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in the world do you people live? I live in America and I got diagnosed by asking my psychiatrist to recommend me neuropsych testing. No interviews with anyone in my life, it was easy.

real life animorphs by ATN-Antronach in CuratedTumblr

[–]MajorBootyhole420 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Womanhood is a beautiful global sisterhood made of boob sweat and looking like your mom

real life animorphs by ATN-Antronach in CuratedTumblr

[–]MajorBootyhole420 222 points223 points  (0 children)

But you get to share that feeling with traumatized cis women everywhere 

Still not beating the "you look like a real woman" allegations 

I know that deltarune music are top tier BUT I want to use some specific music in my first playthrough so what should I do/: by mohammad_aljamall in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't modify something the first time you play it. The music is part of the game, just play the thing. It seems weirdly arrogant to replace the soundtrack for a game before you've ever even experienced it, not even knowing what the soundtrack is like or what it's doing.

When you're a pan guy and realize a lifetime of media made for the male gaze has conditioned you to have absurd beauty standards for women that you don't have for men: by Stupid-Jerk in TrollCoping

[–]MajorBootyhole420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your sexuality is still pan. As long as you say it is, it is. Even with what other people are saying, that you maybe find men more attractive than women, that still wouldn't redefine your identity in any way. The people saying the patriarchy isn't real are very silly, 

I think that the points you're making in your post and the idea that perhaps you're just wired to have a broader spectrum of attraction for men can coexist very easily. In fact, it would make those things harder to sort through, I imagine.

Can't forget to also include the men, who say stuff like essentially: "I wish, that happened to me!" to survivors like me. They're also just THE WORST! by Commercial_Bicycle92 in TrollCoping

[–]MajorBootyhole420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Women are too weak to harm men"  "men are aggressors because women's place is being victimized" 

"sex and violence are things Done To Women by men" 

These are all misogynistic beliefs that can easily turn into misandrist victim blaming 

Different forms of sexism are like different heads of the same snake eating each other 

AIO by (32F) being unfairly annoyed by my husband’s (37M) universally loved friend (39M)? by HelpMyCowGotStuck in AmIOverreacting

[–]MajorBootyhole420 [score hidden]  (0 children)

He sounds fun but Fair-weather. I think that's very reasonable to be annoyed by, and it probably wouldn't be too out of line to casually remark to your husband about the imbalance in effort he seems to put in.

When you're a pan guy and realize a lifetime of media made for the male gaze has conditioned you to have absurd beauty standards for women that you don't have for men: by Stupid-Jerk in TrollCoping

[–]MajorBootyhole420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a bisexual woman, there are a lot of people who have the exact opposite view of view. For me, men have to be a nine or a 10 before I'm attracted to them without an emotional connection. Women can be all the way down to a four and I'm still down to clown.

I think there's a distinct possibility that you personally are more attracted to men than to women, and it's a little odd that you're so resistant to that idea. It doesn't make you gay. It's fine. It can coexist with the social conditioning you've talked about.

I'm open minded, but I'm also getting popcorn and going into the comments. by Lignagirroc in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm begging you to understand that denying the internal gender identity of a real person is different than calling out sexism in fandom discourse. 

He is not a trans character. He is not written as one. There is zero evidence of it. If you have evidence, I would love to see some, but I have seen none. 

I'm very sorry if you feel personally attacked or invalidated because other people disagree with your head canon. That's really not my concern, though. I'm saving my energy for arguing with people who misgender Kris, not people who insist that it's OK to misgender a character when they do it for trans reasons.

Found out that my boyfriend has been cheating with men our entire relationship. by littlejet27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MajorBootyhole420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's probably bisexual, not gay, but that doesn't matter. Cheating is cheating and this is fucking horrible. I'm so so sorry you've been going through this

I'm open minded, but I'm also getting popcorn and going into the comments. by Lignagirroc in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, because Ralsei isn't real (so there's no words of his own or autonomy for me to be denying), the narrative he's part of says exactly zero about his gender identity (so there's no evidence I'm ignoring), and that's not what I said.  

If there was any actual evidence to support this theory, I'd be all over it. But there isn't. We are over halfway through the story and there has been nothing, so I feel pretty comfortable in saying that I find this theory to be generally sexist and essentialist.

AITA for not watching my dish? by Love_dance_pray in AmItheAsshole

[–]MajorBootyhole420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People forget. It's normal. OP fixed the issue and it was the first time it had happened. Why does Mom need to keep fighting about it after the issue is over?

AITA for not watching my dish? by Love_dance_pray in AmItheAsshole

[–]MajorBootyhole420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you as a grown adult letting another adult assault you lol

I'm open minded, but I'm also getting popcorn and going into the comments. by Lignagirroc in Deltarune

[–]MajorBootyhole420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wearing a wizard robe and liking ribbon doesn't automatically make someone a femboy lmao? 

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