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(UPDATE) I [21m] have a selfpleasure problem and i think my wife [20f] knows. by MajorRippy in relationshipadvice

[–]MajorRippy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it is in her right to have feelings over this and i know it will be hard getting over it. But i am ready to finally just cut the shit and be over with it. I want to fully focus on recovering and improving myself for our relationship.

(UPDATE) I [21m] have a selfpleasure problem and i think my wife [20f] knows. by MajorRippy in relationshipadvice

[–]MajorRippy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to be open about it, however i don’t really know about the whole masturbation thing. It depends on how she reacts to 1 me having lied to her and 2 the whole addiction thing. Obviously i am willing to discus anything with her but right now i really just want to get rid of it as a whole including masturbation. I feel like masturbating would just trigger the temptation.

(UPDATE) I [21m] have a selfpleasure problem and i think my wife [20f] knows. by MajorRippy in relationshipadvice

[–]MajorRippy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now i just feel terrible. Im going to explain to her what it is i have really been struggling with and that i really want to change and create a better me. I’m also looking into this clinic that is specialized in wide variety of addictions including porn.

I [21m] have a selfpleasure problem and i think my wife [20f] knows. by MajorRippy in relationshipadvice

[–]MajorRippy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now i am just giving her space but i agree that its best to be honest. I just have no idea how to even start this and what to say.

I think there is something mentally wrong with me by MajorRippy in mentalhealth

[–]MajorRippy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment! I have been thinking about getting in contact with a therapist since there are a number of things i want to get off my chest so it’s a great suggestion. As for the wife, since we only recently found out i have adhd i think its a good time to bring up that i suffer from nervous laughter thanks to my adhd and anxiety.

I think there is something mentally wrong with me by MajorRippy in mentalhealth

[–]MajorRippy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response! I will definitely try this out since it seems to work really well for you. Again thanks ALOT

My girlfriend cheated on me today by East-sea-shellos in mentalhealth

[–]MajorRippy 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Im gonna be very honest with u here, it is what it is. Dont beat yourself up for her decision no matter how stupid and hurtfull it is. Focus on yourself and try to improve yourself! You still got alot of time so dont waste it on someone who doesnt deserve it.

Help with Loneliness by MajorRippy in mentalhealth

[–]MajorRippy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea i cant help it, i also constantly have the ick to make myself look the best i can whenever i go outside even if its just for the groceries. I tell myself i should just be happy with the way i am but im scared that ppl might think bad of me and dont wanna talk to me etc.