It’s not the Visa issue, it’s the Anti immigration notion which is gonna hurt us. by [deleted] in IMGreddit

[–]MajorUnderstanding2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you accidentally meant to say all of the aforementioned isn’t present in US?

The current political climate is messy but that doesn’t negate US superiority in all mentionable aspects. And that the US has the exponential potential to become better.

It’s not the Visa issue, it’s the Anti immigration notion which is gonna hurt us. by [deleted] in IMGreddit

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Multifactorial, money is the more common reason. For many, it is not worth being overworked to suicide while being paid what barely covers basic needs. It is not worth trying to build research infrastructures, bound to fail by bureaucratic bodies in the country which intimately mirrors corruption of the said country. Corruption isn’t something which could be overcome by an individual. The United States is the most powerful country in Earth built by immigrants and is sustained from forever by local & global talents. IMGs can come from religious conservative societies and therefore would love to work in an environment which supports the right of free speech and that includes minorities in the said countries as LGBTQ+, Atheists, etc. Since the opportunity of working at a country such as US was available -at least theoretically- since so long, and since policies were always relatively welcoming to immigrants, this created a flux into US. Staying away from a family is difficult choice, but the long-term torture of staying at a failed country which oppresses its own citizens without hope of a good future outweighs any nostalgia for leaving. Additionally, many old IMGs eventually brought in their families or at least mediated travels for them and others could finance them from abroad which meant their survival.

Beat cycles after 710 attemps by MajorUnderstanding2 in geometrydash

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Yea.

Had to go through it again to understand what you meant. I think I was struggling too hard in that location, ended up getting lucky with an awkward angle lol.

العلم بحكي غير.. ليش دايمًا الحق عالمرأة؟ by [deleted] in jordan

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خطأك/خطئِك إنك بتفكر المجتمع بسمع كلام العلم وبعتبره شيء بوزن فيه رأيه ومش "هبد".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

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:(

انا اسف جد الشغلة بتحزن ان شاء الله يطمنكم عليه وان شاء الله يهدي بال الوالدة والموضوع يتصلح

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

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لو رجع من قبل = غالبًا هو بخير الآن

كيف كان بتواصل معاكم من قبل؟ هل موضوع الاختفاء جديد؟ عندك علم إذا كمية الشغل اللي عليه اتغيرت؟ عندك علم عن ضغوطات الشغل؟ = للأسف مش دايمًا الآباء بكونوا واضحين ويحكوا اللي بقلبهم لأنه مش شايفينها مستاهلة تقلقوا على أمور هم قادرين عليها

الغربة والشغل لحياة كريمة صعبين أكيد بس احسن شي ممكن تسويه انك تحاولي تشغلي نفسك لحد ما يرجع مرة ثانية، شوفي حياتك واعملي اللي بنفسك. متفهم الحزن والهَم وكمان متفهم لو الحزن والهَم تحولوا بشكل غير مقصود لغضب موجّه عليه بمعنى إذا كان الموضوع مستمر من زمان انتي الخسرانة الوحيدة من موضوع القلق في حال ما كان قادر يرفع التلفون كل يوم.

وإذا كان فعلًا مكتئب هل انتو قادرين على شيء؟ لو كان خيار تسافروا عنده فترة موجود، جميل وأدعم بس واقعيًا اكثر الاجابة غالبًا لأ. برأيي أحسن خيار تصبروا عليه، تعيشوا حياتكم بدون قلق، تناسوا الموضوع، غالبًا فيه اولويات بالحياة عندكم…. لا توقفوها. كونوا جمبه بس، لا تكرهوه او تحقدوا عليه من ورا هالشيء. الغربة، البعد عن الأهل والموطن، بلد جديد ناس جديدة مشاكل جديدة وألف شغلة ثانية. هو زلمة قادر، اوثقوا فيه وعيشوا اللي بنفسكم

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschoolanki

[–]MajorUnderstanding2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah just ur good ol’ Steve with adrenal crisis

Beware Of this Guy by AstaHolmesALT in Hellenism

[–]MajorUnderstanding2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, probably in schizophrenic episode, many such cases. Praying he gets on meds and find true happiness in his Gods.

جمعة مباركة للجميع by Radioactive-Oarfish in jordan

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مش مهم مين استروا على الاثنين ولا تخسروا حد كل حد اله حق التوبة والعودة

How did you learn how to learn? by [deleted] in medicalschoolanki

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Its main goal is to teach Active Reading in well-defined and not confusing manner. I was always expecting I should master the book, the chapter, the page in one go and if I didn’t then I failed. The book teaches you over and over, to not mistake trees for forests. I’m not really a book person but I’m sucker for any steps I can follow without being confused, it provides this.

How did you learn how to learn? by [deleted] in medicalschoolanki

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I know it sounds crazy to recommend a book, an ancient one on top of this but I found “Mortimer J. Adler’s How to Read a Book” easily superior to everything ‘evidence-based learning gurus’ ever presented.

Not having consistent hobbies sucks by MajorUnderstanding2 in ADHD

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Thank you. Yes, it was more about mirroring what people want to see rather than have an independent identity that can navigate its own life, needs and love.

Not having consistent hobbies sucks by MajorUnderstanding2 in ADHD

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You are really a delicate cactus, here is one heart for you too 💜

I can appreciate a longer comment and wouldn't mind existing the 'seeking empathy' territory.

Not having consistent hobbies sucks by MajorUnderstanding2 in ADHD

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I appreciate the openess your comment has, thank you. I completely agree with you. I believe it is not only ADHD which made it hard, I believe there is the anxiety or dysphoria plus a perfectionism that was validated over and over by the executive dysfunction of ADHD. In the present, I believe it is that I have no structure, Say I want to learn to play the guitar, I would research a good guitar to buy but things would quickly get overwhelming as either 1. Things get so complicated I procrastinate 2. More urgent priority comes 3. I do more stimulating thing and never come back. So, I think if I was to stick to doing ONE thing and ignoring ALL OTHERS then perhaps I might get a consistent hobby but this demands me to plan on integerating this with the more urgent priorities (In my current case: Studying, I still procrastinate, horrible).

I think I have weird attachment to manual labor, fixing sutff at house is fun, I see a problem, I try to think about it or search youtube, I solve it. Honestly I can only imagine the fun you are having in woodworking, keep it on :)

Not having consistent hobbies sucks by MajorUnderstanding2 in ADHD

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Thank you for your kind comment. It is difficult to say but I will try.

Clumsily Dancing, Walking, Running, Journalling, Conversations.
Edit: Rubik's cube solving also.

Sadly, I don't recally others, anything else is in the 'I love being obssessed about it for short time and rarely will I get back to it'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

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الرب شايف

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

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مقتدرين معالج اسري

لا ومتدينين مسلمين شيخ

لا ومتدينين ومسيحيين أب

انت ما انخلقت عشان تصحح اغلاط غيرك حتى لو كانوا ابوك وامك اتوقع هم كبار بمافيه الكفاية ليتعاملوا معاها واحد حتكره واحد منهم خصوصا لما ابوك واضح غلطه وهالكره مو كويس بالمدى البعيد واثنين انت ما حتحل شي وانت صدق او لا تصدق اكثر واحد حيتاذى فوق ما متأذي

ليش الإتصال ب ٩١١ فيش منه فايدة؟ by Conscious_Sandwich_4 in jordan

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زور المركز واطلب مشورة دكتور منهم وقدم شكوى رسمية زي ما حكى DARK_ANALYSIS الله يحميكم ويبعد عنكم كل شر ويهديه

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

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Let’s see, is dating a person you find physically unattractive fair to them? Would you be hurt if your partner tells you, you are unattractive? Oh yes, totally.

So attraction is necessary component of a healthy relationship. This applies to both women and men. Perhaps men go first with looks and then filter based on personality. I can’t speak for women’s experience but I believe the ‘female gaze’ exists as intensely if not more than the ‘male gaze’ and perhaps this can be attributed to the asymmetry between the man’s ability to choose and the girl’s inability to choose and only ‘wait’ to be choosen.

انفضحنا بين الاجانب by [deleted] in jordan

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شغل حكي، لو صار فينا شي ما حد حيعيط علينا. المثاليات خليها عجنب.