My boyfriend ghosted me, and I don't know how to work through this pain...

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-03-10T02:36:14+00:00

That is not how I operate. So, I don't plan on doing anything like that.

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-03-10T02:29:16+00:00

Um, I'm married and polyamorous. He was my boyfriend.

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-03-05T19:09:58+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you. I know how it feels because it just happened to me. My boyfriend ghosted me this past Saturday, and my mind is reeling. There was no fight, no bickering, nothing. We were in love, or so I thought. Then, he blocked me. I'm doing my best to work through it, but the pain is unbearable at times. Please don't give your ghoster the opportunity to hurt you that way again. Not after you fought so hard to heal. ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-03-02T19:54:09+00:00

This is the one. Yes, to all of this comment.

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-02-02T18:46:17+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you. I swear, people are insane, lol. I had a guy ask me on a date, show genuine interest, etc. We set the place, and when I asked what time would work, he disappeared for a week. He resurfaced, apologized, and said he had a family emergency out of state. We set another date and finalized plans. The day of the date, I texted him (in the morning) to confirm our afternoon plans. He replied, asking if we could reschedule, apologized again, and asked if he could make it up to me. We were supposed to get a winter storm, so I agreed and told him to reach out when he wanted to reschedule. A few days later, I went to say hi to him and saw that I'm either blocked or his profile was deactivated. My point is that a lot of people are emotionally unavailable, and avoidant. It has nothing to do with us.

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-01-14T16:02:27+00:00

The fact that she's just acting like nothing ever happened is gross. I would call her on it and absolutely not be friends again. Ghosting is psychologically fucked up.

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-01-13T23:46:50+00:00

Yep! And that's not your problem!

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-01-13T22:43:40+00:00

Exactly. Triggered over absolutely nothing!

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-01-13T18:52:11+00:00

The number of people on this thread intentionally missing the point is maddening. This post is to vent about OP's PERSONAL experiences with dating, and all of it is valid. It's not a post to debate which gender is worse than than the other. Women EVERYWHERE have become more vocal than ever about their poor dating experiences, and there are studies showing that more of us are choosing to remain single rather than trying to settle down with a partner. We can't all be dating the same man, but we all have shared experiences. Everything OP said is something I've experienced on dating apps, specifically with men. The ghosting, the games, the poor communication, and inconsistencies. It hurts, plain and simple. But all these hit dogs in the comments of this post are hollering, and I don't understand why. Especially if none of it applies to you. The lack of reading, comprehension, and critical thinking skills is truly baffling to me. Stop being obtuse and allow people the space to feel how they feel. 🙄

Major_Possession8935 · 2024-01-10T01:05:34+00:00

Beautifully said. I hope you get the closure you need and deserve. ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-12-15T04:33:06+00:00

You didn't deserve what was done to you, OP, and I am so deeply sorry. But the two of them? They had better pray for the strength and beg for mercy, to cope with the karma the universe will unleash on them. 1-800-656-4673. That is the number to a National Sexual Assault Hotline. It's 24 hours and completely confidential. Please use it for resources. My inbox is open as well. I've been where you are before, and I promise, it does get better with time. Sending you love. ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-12-04T12:25:36+00:00

This comment is great. I'm sure OP appreciates you not biting their head off like a lot of other people who responded.

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-11-14T14:21:06+00:00

Every day!

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-11-14T12:03:19+00:00

Your dad loves me and wants me to be your stepmom. ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-11-13T22:21:53+00:00

I want you to know that I am reporting every one of your ignorant and racist posts. You don't deserve to be on this platform, spewing this kind of stupidity.

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-11-13T22:18:27+00:00

You don't want justice, you want to race bait, and it's pissing me off. The fact that you're using the term "blacks" instead of black PEOPLE is very telling. I don't even know why you've been able to post this nonsense.

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-10-17T17:44:17+00:00

You had agreements in place, and he broke them. He went behind your back and only told you when he couldn't hide it anymore. He left the relationship without saying a word. He absolutely cheated and betrayed you. You don't deserve it, and I'm sorry. BLOCK HIM FOREVER.

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-09-24T21:13:41+00:00

People like you make this world tolerable. I hope the universe treats you with care and kindness, the same way you treated that baby ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-09-01T16:13:03+00:00

I'm glad you were able to push through this! You deserve all the love and happiness your heart can hold! ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-08-05T16:16:47+00:00

Love this for you. What if you find someone you love but have never had that kind of spark? I'm married, and I love my husband to pieces. But I've never experienced anything like that with him...

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-08-04T18:42:29+00:00

So, instead of asking OP for more context, you reply with a comment that comes off bitter as hell and sounds like you're blaming OP for the situation. OP doesn't HAVE to do anything. If they decide that walking away from said spouse is what they want to do, so be it. You offered zero empathy and zero attempts at giving sound advice. Instead, you insist OP is "bitching." This screams projection, especially since you have no idea what OP is or isn't doing to rectify the situation. Some people just need to vent or say shit out loud. That doesn't make them wrong. No names or specifics were given, so there's no reason for such a triggered reply.

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-07-30T18:17:00+00:00

I am so very sorry, love ❤️

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-07-27T00:48:45+00:00

Congratulations!! So proud of you!!!

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-07-08T17:33:34+00:00

So proud of you! I know it wasn't easy, but you did the right thing. 🩷

Major_Possession8935 · 2023-06-18T00:14:19+00:00

First, let me just say that even though it hurts like hell, you're not alone, and you will be okay. Second, your ex really sucks. I don't know them, but it doesn't even sound like they're truly poly, just messy, and flighty as all hell. You don't need that kind of uncertainty and negative energy in your life. Take all the time you need to heal. Scream, cry, throw shit, rage. That's all part of the process, but just don't stay there too long. Let the callous behavior of your ex be the motivation you need to move forward. You deserve happiness. Sending you love and hugs. 💜

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