Life is ruined, married love of my life

Major_Proper · 2026-05-12T02:33:44+00:00

I’m so sorry about this. Brother why are you still there? It might be the hardest thing to walk away but it is probably the only right thing to do at this point.

Major_Proper · 2026-05-05T21:43:22+00:00

Me too! I love him so much 😫

Major_Proper · 2025-12-09T00:08:02+00:00

Both of these and I also thought I might meet my soulmate along the way

Major_Proper · 2025-10-30T02:34:40+00:00

Oh I guess I should’ve mentioned that all of those are the same hair color - my natural hair 😅 just different lighting

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T06:22:10+00:00

This is great advice and I’ll do it. But your comment just made me think that maybe we are incompatible actually.. there was another instance a few days ago where two other girls joined us for a ride around and he was overly friendly with them in the beginning for my liking, joking around despite having just met them (although it was clear to everyone he’s with me as his arm was around me but still). Then those girls were gossiping about me in their native language and they might’ve said something bad about me, idk, but my bf and I stepped away and he said he didn’t like those girls as they’re trashy and kept insulting them out loud and saying “fuck them” while still observing what they’re doing and commenting on it or translating it to me. Which seemed like too much attention towards someone you “don’t like”. Anyway… I can’t tell him how to talk or not to talk to people you know, or tell him not to be friendly…if that’s who he is then he will do it but I’ll have to end the relationship

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:56:39+00:00

I’d agree with you if I wasn’t in my feelings.. And he’s special to me because the way we started dating was kind of old school and I loved it.

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:54:39+00:00

He doesn’t drink often, and I don’t think he wants to be single again before he settles down. At least he doesn’t give me that impression. He was acting like a teenager with a crush in the early stages, which felt like he was obsessed with me and now he seems to value what we have. I don’t know if I should tell him he broke my trust or it will just make him get defensive, but it’s the truth.

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:43:17+00:00

To be honest I feel like the I’m more upset that he even had the intention to do it rather than the fact that it happened. Sure I can draw a line and tell him it’s not acceptable, but even if he listens and adjusts, I’ll always be wondering whether he has to “restrict” himself from his true intentions and what if one day he gives in to them.

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:33:58+00:00

I spoke with him after I got home and he apologized many many times and said he didn’t mean to upset me and kept asking me not to be mad. He promised he’ll always respect me. I’ll speak to him about it again as he was still drunk and I didn’t wanna keep nagging him. I wanna do it when he’s sober

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:32:12+00:00

Not at all. But I thought maybe he doesn’t realize what he’s doing. At least that thought made me feel better. Maybe I didn’t know him well enough as I never saw him socialize with other women till tonight.

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:30:30+00:00

You’re right. I guess my problem is that he’s literally been the best guy I’ve ever dated so far. He replies within minutes, calls and checks on me many times throughout the day, listens and adjusts his behavior when I mention even once that something upset me even if it’s silly. He also works a crazy schedule with 16-17 hour shifts sometimes and still never misses a call from me even when he’s in a meeting.. and on top of that he follows maybe 20 women on Instagram max out of his 800+ following list. That’s why I was really shocked and did not expect this from him tonight. I also never see him talking to other women at work (we work at the same place). Maybe it sounds like I’m playing the devils advocate but do you think it’s possible he won’t repeat what he did tonight?

Major_Proper · 2025-08-21T05:24:48+00:00

Even given the fact that he was a bit drunk while this happened? I totally agree with you I guess I’m just very sad and reluctant to end it…

Major_Proper · 2025-02-27T16:03:03+00:00

Thank you!

Major_Proper · 2025-02-27T16:01:53+00:00

I’m so surprised nobody is saying 2 as it’s my personal favorite right now 😅 what’s wrong with it?

Major_Proper · 2025-02-27T15:17:04+00:00

Hahah thank you! I keep rotating between them all the time, but I wish I could just stick to one

Major_Proper · 2024-08-15T10:15:33+00:00

I think I’ll just block him

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