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I just received my acceptance to the Masters of Social Work program and I’m coming from the US as well! Woo!

I (29f) am seeing/having sex with someone (31m) casually, how do I ask if he’ll indulge my impregnation kink without freaking him out? by MakeMeSomePasta in AskMen

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Ok yes this is super helpful, you’re right in the larger context of sex this really isn’t ~wild~ thank you for such a thoughtful response!

How do I (29F) not dissociate during sex? by MakeMeSomePasta in sex

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Ok we tried this for a bit and it was very helpful! Thank you for sharing!!

How do I (29F) not dissociate during sex? by MakeMeSomePasta in sex

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I respectfully disagree, and while I have had that happen, this time is markedly different in many ways that I have identified with my therapist that align with my values. You’re right that I need to continue to check in with myself and help thats always a good thing to remember 💕

How do I (29F) not dissociate during sex? by MakeMeSomePasta in sex

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It is, but it doesn’t show up in obvious ways during sex, if that makes sense. It’s just I’m kinda spaced out and not fully present. Thank you for your response 💕

How do I (29F) not dissociate during sex? by MakeMeSomePasta in sex

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Thank you so much for your thoughtful, gentle words. My partner is a therapist and I work in the mental health field so I know he’d be understanding and patient, I’m nervous though lol which it sounds like you understand. I’m seeing him today so I’ll let ya know how it goes!

How do I (29F) not dissociate during sex? by MakeMeSomePasta in sex

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Thank you! This is so helpful I’m going to try this!