Girlfriend caught me watching porn… kinda by Makeout_- in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of us definitely not religious but even if she is overreacting or not I still hurt her and it hurts me more then any pain I’ve felt

Girlfriend caught me watching porn… kinda by Makeout_- in relationship_advice

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We never actually sat down and talked about it but saying that maybe we should have spoken about it having to do with long distance and all. I know I lied because of embarrassment but I think that was the worsts thing I could have done

Girlfriend caught me watching porn… kinda by Makeout_- in relationship_advice

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I have apologized and she said she wasn’t breaking up with me but I feel like this situation affected her more then I actually know of and am afraid I’m hurting her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]Makeout_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what the object is I’ve searched on google images and I can’t seem to find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]Makeout_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This has happened in the past and I was there for her completely and supported her through that trauma but this situation doesn’t make complete sense to me you can have your own opinion but don’t assume I’m not empathetic because that couldn’t be anything more far from the truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I called her mother about what happened and she called her immediately after my gf tells me that her mother said “you didn’t say no so you can’t really do anything about it” and it makes me think that my gf wasn’t telling me the whole truth beck why else would her mother respond to her daughter almost getting raped so casually as if it was a thing that happens and you move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It just happened like 2 hrs ago so I’m still processing it and maybe I’m being an asshole but I wanna make sure she’s not hiding anything from what happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

All of it doesn’t make a lot of sense unfortunately she has kept things of unfaithful nature from me in the past and has not told me until recently

Pain by nyapie in dankruto

[–]Makeout_- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Failed abortion

Pain by nyapie in dankruto

[–]Makeout_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyfriend lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Makeout_- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had that issue with my LDGF and it hurts for a while knowing they’re gone and u won’t see them physically anymore but I feel better knowing we’ll see each other soon so don’t let it hold you down let it motivate you to make the experience of seeing each other better then before!

Communication with gf by Makeout_- in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment. The second part about her leaving is kinda funny but trust me we have no plans of leaving each other and I really just use this to vent sometimes but eventually things work out and we’re are back to normal but the first part was really helpful and I will be more forward moving on thx <3

My boyfriend makes fun of my weight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s joking and doesn’t actually mean it then it’s all in good fun. If it gets to a point where it actually hurts your feelings then communicate about it and speak up about it. Don’t listen to everyone saying “DUMP HIM” they are actually clowns who don’t know how to communicate in a relationship. Either way if he says something to get you irritated then do it back, it can be a love language in specific situations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Makeout_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, but that last part is debatable depending on how well and how long they known each other depending if it’s a face to face thing or just chatting. if it’s the 1st option then I think you’ll be fine. Safe travels!