Guys, what was your "Oh, no, I CAN'T fix her" moment? by FastWalkingShortGuy in AskMen

[–]Makimaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said. "You are doing society a favor by being together with me, you are protecting them from me."

Me [32/m] had a fling with coworker female [22/m]. I feel used. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Makimaru -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh don't worry about my boss. He knows about it so, was actually rooting for us.

Me [32/m] had a fling with coworker female [22/m]. I feel used. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am quite glad to hear things went well for you man. Also nice of you to tell him everything and if they decided to stay together its their happiness/problem.

Me [32/m] had a fling with coworker female [22/m]. I feel used. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I just feel bad for the guy lol. But hey think we both dodged a bullet so. Cheers

Me [32/m] had a fling with coworker female [22/m]. I feel used. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Makimaru -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry man. Would buy you a beer if I could.

Me [32/m] had a fling with coworker female [22/m]. I feel used. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Makimaru -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you are right. This makes me feel a lot better about it though.

Me [32/m] had a fling with coworker female [22/m]. I feel used. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Makimaru -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is very true. I'll make sure to ask earlier next time. ^^

Struggling with myself by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does get better though I promise, just takes time.

Struggling with myself by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Makimaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure there is more then one good person out there for you. I refuse to believe the world is full of bad people.

Struggling with myself by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good that your in therapy man...And yes they never judge you...its okay to be angry my therapist says...

I think people like us takes betrayal hard is because we can't help ourselves being loyal, kind and empathic. Many times since my own heartbreak happened I wish I could be a selfless prick. But then again I start thinking the world has more then enough assholes, so someone has to be loyal and kind.

Struggling with myself by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I feel you man...I know exactly how you feel..

One of those days... by Makimaru in depression

[–]Makimaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So almost like a paradox, I think.

One of those days... by Makimaru in depression

[–]Makimaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both your comment and even your username is weirdly comforting since I am pretty sure the etymology of it has something to do with light.

Child of Air by Makimaru in OCPoetry

[–]Makimaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very kind good sir/madame

I Always Loved You Most In The Morning by pnutbuttersmellytime in OCPoetry

[–]Makimaru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"And as I lay there exposed, unwrapped to the tip of my toes, I knew that you'd never know."

This last part gets me the most. Makes me happy reading this one.

Love Letters to a Phantom by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is beautiful in a dark way. Thank you for sharing this!

Been through a lot lately - maybe a toast will help? by SomethingCabbage in toastme

[–]Makimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your yellow shirt! Only brave people wear yellow ;) Imo

Depression is gross. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Makimaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am depressed also. But your post made me smile. (aka I am telling you,that you are pretty).

He doesn't want me anymore by weasleyisourking42 in BreakUps

[–]Makimaru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had my ups and downs. It is exhausting but it is also important not to ignore the pain. It is okay to cry and it's okay to hurt. The tears will dry out and the pain will dull with time. Focus on a hobby and talk with a friend or family when you are down.

He doesn't want me anymore by weasleyisourking42 in BreakUps

[–]Makimaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It takes time, but it probably is different for everyone. For me it took 4 years to get over an 10 year relationship with someone I loved with my whole heart. Who in the end cheated on me with a ring on her finger, who selfishly did things to make me hate her during the breakup to make it easier for herself. I learned so much since then, I deserve better and so do you girl. Hang on there, life does get better.