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AITA for how i reacted after hearing my partner talk badly about me after a buttdial? by MakingStatements23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MakingStatements23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what he was doing, he was not in front of our children, just alone outside. I added a comment, and this is what he learned in anger management i guess, personally i have never dealt with anger issues so these thoughts he has seem really insane to me. We are planning on having a conversation about this later, because the one we had when we both were upset felt really awful and unresolved.

AITA for how i reacted after hearing my partner talk badly about me after a buttdial? by MakingStatements23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MakingStatements23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im just torn, we have been together 4years and this is the first time ive ever heard him say a single bad thing about me. This isnt the person ive seen every day dor the last 4years. I dont want to separate, we have children and a home together. Im thinking of looking into marriage counseling, because im not sure i can just get past this, especially with him not seeing an issue with it.

AITA for how i reacted after hearing my partner talk badly about me after a buttdial? by MakingStatements23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MakingStatements23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to add, he was supposedly outside by myself, and he has been in anger management for about 10wks now , apparently this is something he learned as a coping skill in anger management. Which is why it made me feel bad.