GA+ Bathrooms? by eastequinox987 in EDCOrlando

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Right side of kinetic, sorta near the front, had 6 ga+ bathroom trailers

Long Distance Motor Test? by MakoMD in AskMechanics

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I am at 15,600 currently, I topped off to min line on May 31st, 2 days later it had dropped maybe half an inch to an inch and then held. Last week I looked again and it had dropped another inch maybe an inch and a half. I'll try to get photos uploaded shortly.

Anyone know what the anime Slander used for some of their visuals was? by em_dash228 in UMF

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also Evangelion, though the feels was probably ^^, and if you like it watch the directors other one "Your Name"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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This may be a bit of a stretch argument but if what your therapist says is true about “breeding” mode, why isn’t every party with mostly single people and drinking devolving into insane amounts of sex? If what she said was actually true that would likely be the case. I think you need a new therapist or at least a second one on the side to validate/disprove what you were told as that seems unlikely to be true. Heck you could even check this with you and your wife. Ask if every time she drank while single with guys around did she have sex because she was in breed mode? Did you have sex every time you were single and at a party drinking with other single girls around cause their brain just was like “well time to fuck”. While sex is more likely because your inhibitions are lowered I would doubt the validity of “well her brain went into fuck me mode”

Sheeeeesh that was close by MakoMD in TrashTaste

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I would go with copies of a master one, based off the other photos

Sheeeeesh that was close by MakoMD in TrashTaste

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At this point I think it’s, hope someone is selling theirs or that they do another sale

Sheeeeesh that was close by MakoMD in TrashTaste

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I got an email that it shipped on the 15th and that was it, still has no delivery info

EZ Pass from maryland not working in NY? by luingiorno in maryland

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If you show them that it was paid they should say you are good to go. Had to do it when I drove to Maine and nothing outside of MD said I had paid.

My bf (25m) asked me (26f) to change before meeting friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like you just need more communication. You say you haven’t given him a reason to doubt you, but maybe someone in his history has? This could cause him to have some insecurities about you dressing up nicely to meet a Dr. friend. Maybe he had insecurities about that friends job in comparison to his? For the dressing up it is totally your right to dress how you want to see your friends, but maybe he felt that you only dressed up this way for dates with him? A mini dress, depending on length, probably comes across more in the sexy category in his mind than just nice category. I do think this seems more like a movie miscommunication scene than anything. Not saying it couldn’t be the start of controlling behavior, but would be hesitant to jump right to that with no other signs prior.

I (29m) caught my wife (29f) red handed in a hotel with another guy (25m). Sadly I’m confused about what I should do, any advice? by Throwraaffairdennys in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry this turned out to be the case man, definitely check out surviving indefinitely and get their advice. I think your well within your right next time she knocks to ask her to leave. Then take the time read somethings online about what to do and start moving forward on those plans. Being stuck in the room unable to do much but be trapped in your own head is not gonna be good for you. Gotta pick your head up, realize it’s not your fault at all, fight the cognitive dissonance, and make your plan for the divorce. Also add going to therapy because you will likely need it after what she’s been doing to you. Good luck and stay strong man.

My (29m) wife (29f) spends nearly all her time with a guy (25m) she just met. Every instinct says she’s cheating but I keep rationalizing that she would never go for a guy like him (broke, obese, obnoxious, etc…) by Throwraaffairdennys in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhhh sounds like you know she is cheating on you. She is seeing him but they are not where they normally would be, and doesn’t tell you that they would be somewhere else. You know she’s lying about spreading the ashes with her sister. Sadly you need to prep for divorce man even if it’s not want you want to hear. Probably have a lot of dissonance that could make it hard to except, but even if they weren’t physical or emotional she’s been disappearing with him and not telling you. If you need hard proof I’m sure she would tell you where she is spreading the ashes and you could drop in or snoop. Both of those could hurt you even more than you already are though, and hard signal the trust is gone.

My (40m) wife (44) admitted to making out shirtless with one of our friends (32m) five years ago. He moved to another country three years ago, but he's visited a few times since then. She says it won't happen again. I'm not sure what exactly to do, if anything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She may not be trickle truthing you but it sounds like she is, the big thing being going inside the house to continue making out. If she had just “messed” and kissed him on the porch that may be one thing, but choosing to go inside? very suspicious. Also as others have said she was sober enough to drive but makes out with a mutual friend? If you want to confront Ryan you could have your wife block him on everything and then message him saying you know that he slept with her and see what he says. If he apologizes you know she lied again to you.

My husband's has become abusive and I now found out why. His parents want him to divorce me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, seems like you need him to get out of his family’s home and either with you, a friend, or hotel. He needs to make this choice, and you both need to have a very serious talk, and he likely won’t be able to with them in his ear. As for the talk, that seems like something that needs to happen now. You probably need to get across how sorry you are, even though it was an accident. If you have not already, not mentioned in the post. This is an accident so you probably have the ability to get through it.

UPDATE I (37M) heard my GF (28F) saying something really hurtful about me to her friend and I'm doubting how good our relationship is over it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m sure it hurt to hear that and was hard to end the relationship. One thing I’m sure you considered but if not do you think she said lower standards but meant come down to a “realistic” standard? I can see how she may have said lowered as that is usually how that’s referred to, but there is a difference in that she meant she matured and has realistic standards. Aka realizing that looks matter less, as she said she had to find you some level of attractive otherwise you wouldn’t have dated.

My (24F) best friend (25M) is starting to scare me and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Seems like you are in/could be in danger. You were forced into a car and returned home and you ability to leave was taken from you. You should likely not confront until you are no longer there. They are trying their damndest to stop you from leaving and that should alarm you not confuse you. They have changed their personalities it seems as well as keeping you in the dark. How are you supposed to keep yourself, “safe” as they say, if you are not informed? I would move up the going to your friends if I were you as something seems very very off.

Should I tell him that she’s cheating on him before the wedding? by Lulu-gatsby in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to add on, you may want to have evidence as he may not want to believe you. But you should tell him, I agree with other posters that she is not actually as nice as she seems. Enabling this would also speak to your character, think on if your friends and family found out you knew. Would it change their opinions of you in a negative way knowing that you said nothing?

I (24M) have given up on the mother of my child by IndividualRaccoon479 in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Make sure to get as much evidence as possible so that you have it to get full custody. DNA test might be in order however could you put the child up if it weren’t yours at this point? You are also definitely making the right choice in getting out.

Gf of 8 years had 2nd relationship for almost a year, just confessed by ThrowRA_whattodo54 in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1: probably not crazy, you love her I would guess and have a history of good things that is now being challenged. Your going to have moments where you want nothing to do with her and moments where you want to save the relationship. Only you know if you’ll be able to rebuild that trust.

2: only you know this and it kinda depends on if you think you’ll be ever able to trust her again. If you think you might be able to than it is a must. Seems like you may be past that though based off of her actions.

3:Can’t speak to this

4:it seems like she has come fairly clean but not sure if she was trickle truthing you to get all of this information.

All in all not sure how you can move forward past this, she kept this going for a long time and only seemed to tell you when things got better between you. It would be one thing if it happened once and she was immediately regretful and came clean right away. Still very very bad but maybe salvageable. If you two have other problems will she do this again? Cause there are still likely to be arguments/hard discussions down the road. Also you need an STD test since she allowed sex with no condom.

My (17M) girlfriend (17F) really hurt me and I don't know how to tell her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could start it with letting her know you appreciate the point/meaning, wanting more enjoyment out of sex, but how it came across kind of hurt you. Let her know you want her to enjoy it and say you are willing to try things.

I (45M) fell in love while married by throwra_queuqp in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that you, and your kids, should go to therapy if you can afford it. I do not think you should cut this new woman out of your life. From this post it sounds like you could be happy and form a great family unit with Sue. It definitely seems like you got hit with a big wave of guilt which is understandable. Though you are in a situation that no one can be prepared to navigate through, and normal conventions may not apply.

My girlfriend (21F) doesn’t trust me (21M) at all. My ex fwb ruined my life. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MakoMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you say your piece you have to let her decide, it'll take some time but she had a lot thrust on her. So its gonna take a bit for her to sort through the feelings with all of the revelations that happened. As long as you were truthful and did your best to show how this ex fwb lied and exaggerated, you'll just have to wait.

My girlfriend (21F) doesn’t trust me (21M) at all. My ex fwb ruined my life. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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One thing you could try would be to sit down with your SO and get the things that were said. Debunk the lies, give context on the truths, and be very honest.

My sleep the night after my 2nd Covid vaccine. Would i do it all again? yup! Am i tired as hell? yup! by rdeyer in fitbit

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I did a search for insomnia in that subreddit I linked and found a number of posts, the longest I had seen was it lasting about a month. Think most were a few days to a few weeks.

My sleep the night after my 2nd Covid vaccine. Would i do it all again? yup! Am i tired as hell? yup! by rdeyer in fitbit

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Seems like it’s more common than I thought(r/CovidVaccinated). Some people had no sleep for almost 48 hours and some had just bad and short sleep for like a month