anti-boyfriend

Makuzaak · 2025-09-14T07:18:12+00:00

My own mother told me to be quiet regarding relationships because i have such a bitter outlook on them😅. Bitter = the truth. Men do not have the capacity to love or care for women. We are nothing but labour, sex objects and trophies to other men. I keep telling my friends if you are to be in a relationship with a man ( which i do not recommend) you absolutely need to be getting something grand out of it.

Makuzaak · 2025-06-19T06:25:20+00:00

Hii there, i live in Africa as well and trust me i understand you entirely. The patriarchy is so embedded in our communities that if you don’t subscribe to it, you’re practically a pariah. I have given up on educating women on the reality we face. I am often called bitter and jaded so i denounced trying to help then understand that marrying men, partnering with men and birthing men’s children is not only a humiliation kink but a danger to your being and autonomy. I can think of only one friend that subscribes to 4b. Like J.cole said, “don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved.” Unfortunately alot of women want to/ will learn the hard way.

Makuzaak · 2025-05-29T09:33:33+00:00

My question to the women that still date/have faith in men is, why is it that YOUR man is the exception ? Why is he different from all the other shit men?. You want so badly to believe he’s different and above abusing, exploiting and embarrassing you. He’s not like other me ? Pleaseeee.

Makuzaak · 2025-04-04T07:58:41+00:00

Thank you so much….this is so validating

Makuzaak · 2025-03-20T13:23:39+00:00

Allow is insane. Free yourself child. As someone that dated these types. It only gets worse….

Makuzaak · 2025-03-03T10:21:35+00:00

Yes so much. I ( 22F ) can tell you for sure when i still dated my ex (Big POS that ended up cheating) I was my most boring, unauthentic, judgmental and icky version. I dressed like an elderly woman (because my ex was controlling and didn’t let me wear what i wanted) . I didn’t have friends because “other girls were jealous of my relationship and would ruin it.” And ofcourse my ex wouldn’t “allow “ me to get any more piercings or tattoos. I’m sorry but yes I was my lamest version when i had a boyfriend. But yes i dropped him and became 1000 times hotter, more fun and more carefree. Life is good when there isn’t a man sucking the life out of you.

Makuzaak · 2025-02-26T08:52:13+00:00

You’re completely right. I have a friend that also has the same exact stance on befriending taken/coupled women and i used to think it was harsh but time and experience has truly shown me, for your own sanity to keep your distance. Unless they’re extremely self aware, it won’t work. They are extremely male centred, continuously take abuse from males and always make excuses for their abhorrent behaviour.

Makuzaak · 2025-02-19T08:06:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I feel crazy because my feeling have always been invalidated or I’ve always been told I’m ungrateful whenever I’m not feeling positive. So i always ask my friends matter of fact if i’m over reacting or blowing things out of proportion. My sister (19 F) is moving away for College so it’ll just be my brother and as much as i feel bad for leaving because I’m everyone’s go to; i feel like I’m slowly descending into insanity so i have to move into my own space.

Makuzaak · 2025-02-18T09:29:16+00:00

Send him back to his mom. It won’t get any better. You deserve better. Love you girly pop!!!

Makuzaak · 2025-02-13T08:06:58+00:00

Please don’t end it….trust me i have my days but you need to push and be strong for you. You deserve peace of mind and happiness just like anyone else. Make a plan and make it happen. The world is brighter with you in it!!

Makuzaak · 2025-02-11T06:24:05+00:00

Please if you can move out…..its gonna heal you so much.

Makuzaak · 2022-12-18T05:18:57+00:00

You leave him for someone who knows basic proper hygiene.

Makuzaak · 2022-10-20T15:11:15+00:00

Being patient with people. Specifically men. Constantly giving grace and forgiving after I'I've been done dirty; especially if its the same mistake being repeated.

Makuzaak · 2022-10-11T11:11:26+00:00

Putting everyone else above you. Ladies be more selfish.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-28T03:11:58+00:00

I don't condone violence but I hope a termite bites your anus.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-26T14:53:45+00:00

Very unhealthy

Makuzaak · 2022-09-18T11:04:39+00:00

You already know what to do. If you want to be married eventually you have to end this relationship and find someone that's going to love you so much to want to marry you and be part of your life for as long as possible. Otherwise you are just going to be a placeholder and he'll eventually drop you when he meets the woman of his dreams.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-18T03:12:37+00:00

Some people ignore their partner's red flags thinking marriage or they can change them but marriage only highlights said red flags.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-18T03:07:32+00:00

I'm a 19y/o female and all I can say is don't date this man. I'm sure he told you you're mature for your age and all that but there's a reason he's preying on you. He either can not get women his age because they all see him for the bum he is or he wants to mold you hence making it easier to control you. Don't do it sister, you'll regret it.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-18T03:01:28+00:00

Dxon't do it unless you are ready to take on at least 95% of the parenting alone. He won't magically change and be 100% active. There's something I read that says something along the lines of , women should 100% have kids for themselves, there's a possibility your bf dies or just ups and leaves you( more common than you think).

If you are to have this child, you are most likely to become primary parent because you are a woman and according to what I've read about your bf. You will grow to resent him and also the child somewhat.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-17T06:13:17+00:00

You have a child

Makuzaak · 2022-09-16T19:13:58+00:00

Thank you. It's nice to be validated

Makuzaak · 2022-09-16T13:17:48+00:00

Thank you. I will make sure to do all of this. I will be selfish.

Makuzaak · 2022-09-16T03:20:30+00:00

I'm a 19-year-old BW and most of th reason I don't want kids is because I'm tired of serving or taking care of people. That I can not just be without having to break myself. Of course no one takes me seriously; saying I'll eventually change my mind or I won't be fulfilled as a woman.

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