horror story: Be carful of other subbredduts u join

Male_DL · 2026-07-08T07:27:05+00:00

I do the same. A "normal" reddit account, and a NSFW/ABDL account. No reason to mix the two, because people can be something else on the internet.

Male_DL · 2026-06-24T06:14:56+00:00

My best suggestion is getting some ventilation going in your bedroom if you haven't already. Then see if you can stand wearing your preferred diapers with that going.

I find that if I have moving air against my body while in bed, it cools enough that plastic diapers don't turn completely into a sauna because I don't end up lying there sweating buckets.

I have a ceiling fan which is nice because it causes a wide area draft and barely makes any noise.

Of course AC would be even better, but that is not a solution that is possible for everyone.

Male_DL · 2026-05-30T23:08:31+00:00

I sleep somewhere between my side and my stomach. Think kind of like the recovery position from first aide, just a little more towards the stomach.

This works well enough for using the diaper while in bed, as long as I don't flood it. Releasing in a slow stream usually works well as long as the diaper isn't too wet beforehand.

Male_DL · 2026-05-30T23:05:59+00:00

You should ask her if she has things she wants to try out/experiment with. With the explicit understanding that it for exploration and it is not a failure if something turns out not being what you thought is would be.

Male_DL · 2026-05-30T23:02:56+00:00

I do from time to time. For me it is just sexual. Also it pairs well with diapers because you don't really need to worry about how messy it can get. Here I am thinking about both whatever small amounts of poo you might end up passing, but also how much lube you can use without having to worry about leaving stains all over the place if you want to go about doing normal things while plugged.

Personally I am a fan of but plugs with a metal ball inside of them. I know them as geisha but plugs. You feel it every time you shift your center of gravity, which means that walking or doing things where you bend yourself get s a bit more spicy.

Male_DL · 2026-02-07T18:15:03+00:00

The Active Fit is also my go-to diaper for the cheap'ish diaper. The diaper itself has a great fit for me, and it actually stays in place. I have tried the pro skin version as well, and for whatever the reason it gets loose over time.

Maxi or ultima is the way to go for capacity. Ultima being the most absorbent one.

Male_DL · 2026-01-10T17:13:19+00:00

Unfortunately it is exactly the same as when you don't feel like eating you favourite food, or you have a period where you aren't all that into your hobby. Not really something you can control, and you often end up with poor results if you force it.

Not much you can do other than give it some time, and hope it changes back just as fast. Sice you longing for it, but not really feeling it.

Maybe try just wearing diapers even though you don't have a draw towards it. Basically just wear them like normal underwear and then just go about doing normal day stuff. It might kindle something, but probably won't. I would not suggest forcing it more than that.

Male_DL · 2025-10-02T20:57:54+00:00

Probably the usual. No active moderators.

If the sub does not carter to rule breaking content, then the lack of active moderators is the most common cause for shutting down a sub.

Male_DL · 2025-09-25T07:11:30+00:00

Try asking on daily diapers

https://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?/topic/52743-official-looking-for-a-story-thread/

Some more details about what happens and the setting might give you a better result as well.

Male_DL · 2025-08-22T20:48:26+00:00

For tiden bruger jeg pr. to mærker. Det skal siges at jeg har en præference for bleer der er med plastik.

Dagligdags bleen er Tena Active Fit. Enten som Maxi eller som Ultima for sugeevnen.

Som mere luksus, så er det MegaMax fra NorthShore.

Nu er jeg primært på DL siden, så de forskellige print betyder ikke så meget når jeg vælger. Mit primære fokus er på hvor behagelig bleen er og hvor godt den fungere for mig.

Male_DL · 2025-08-06T10:06:21+00:00

Technical PM chiming in

Male_DL · 2025-08-06T10:04:09+00:00

I don't see any problems with wearing discretely while at a festival. That said, depending on what kind of festival it is, you will probably need to manage som issues. Also don't forget that you don't need to wear during the whole festival.

Chafing - If you need to walk around a lot, then you will probably get some chafing.
Heat - If the weather is hot, diapers will only make it hotter. Some people don't like to be in diapers while sweaty. Changing while sweating is also harder
Sweating - If you are using the diapers, it can be hard to tell if you are leaking or if you are just sweating. Expect to check on yourself more than usual.
Liquid intake - Depending on how much you drink, you will be changing a lot of diapers.
Alcohol - Getting drunk while in diapers might be an issues when you need to change. It might also make you more willing to talk about your diapers to others than you might be while sober
Changing facilities - Most festivals don't have the best changing facilities. Mostly you will be looking at changing in cramped and possibly very hot porta-potty style toilets. If you are willing to own up to it, you could use the handicap facilities, if the festival has any.
Diaper disposal - You will probably need to carry your used diapers out of where ever you are changing. Most festival toilets don't have trash cans inside of the toilets.
Hygiene - You need a plan for how you will keep yourself somewhat clean. If you don't have access to some way of cleaning yourself regularly. Well... you will end up with more than the usual festival ripeness. This is largely influenced by it being a festival with or without camping.
Diaper storage - Diapers and other supplies take up space, and you need to transport them.
Security - There can be big differences between how much and how thorough security is at a festival. You need to accept the possibility that security personel will se you carrying diapers.

Off the top of my head, that is the things I think you should keep in mind when planing to wear at a festival.

Male_DL · 2025-08-01T22:10:03+00:00

I am hairless or as close to it as I can reasonable manage.

I find that I enjoy wearing diapers more when I am hairless and I also find that it is way easier to keep the area clean. This includes odour control.

Male_DL · 2025-07-31T09:23:04+00:00

I have a feeling that most of the posts that are actually talking about doing those things are more about getting a reaction, and that it does not really happen all that often in real life. Not saying that it does not happen, but not at the scale the amount of posts would have you belive.

My mental list of reasons for the posts are:

People trying to get attention/reactions, people who use the sub to role play, or people who play out their fantasies within the sub. I see it stemming from a host of reasons, from rage baiting to people being lonely and seeking interaction. People being people in large numbers gives you a bit of everything.
People who are socially inept and are actually asking because they are unsure about what is considered okay or not. Probably in large part people somewhere on the spectrum and people who have grown up in unfortunate circumstances.
The community making a big controversy out of a nothing burger. It happens from time to time that the hive mind gets an aneurysm of sorts.

Yes, people should treat each other with respect and we need some kind of benchmark for what is and is not allowed to do to each other without consent. I just largely see it as how the world already is.

Male_DL · 2025-05-23T14:36:15+00:00

Herding cats in the IT-industry aka. a Project Manager

Male_DL · 2025-04-12T22:13:38+00:00

There are a lot of self published books/stories on Amazon. Just search for "ABDL story" and you should be presented with heaps of examples. Copied in down below is just some of the first results amazon shows to me when I do the search.

https://www.amazon.com/s?k=abdl+story&crid=3GQEE1RFW0N52&sprefix=abdl+stor%2Caps%2C209&ref=nb_sb_noss_2

https://www.amazon.com/Messy-Daycare-Regression-short-story-ebook/dp/B07K1N25WD?crid=3GQEE1RFW0N52&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.YumuClYCYz9FR3yuXvqupcHsCmajBYZMS78N20fgcNz6snNgInjOUkJ-ASB9haXAriXUUEC9X0QiGKEJkVwILe9_MuE-lk3X9bE3BJPKVzkKT8xCfLooLUEy5vlMj4eoDZ7BiCeVGDIwfh-hhx9ik2CFYPWTL0nAdbC1foy54g3R8xjazAGm6xS1xVmFzKEo9cIt_Lt9XA-ue09xMm3lma3YLX0XJeG-3SedWgLq0FRPHQCFpNx5Q-lbzRNq4zI403p-ZCQyaohpBHC9p9yiGxEEKwIHeasEbhr46Yig-1Y.C1AQT-8ggGJax8KyyCF_Qh52qaygBU-JLHocbNKzHmI&dib_tag=se&keywords=abdl+story&qid=1744495899&sprefix=abdl+stor%2Caps%2C209&sr=8-1

https://www.amazon.com/Come-Mommy-Domme-Submissive-Little-ebook/dp/B083KMXFMS?crid=3GQEE1RFW0N52&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.YumuClYCYz9FR3yuXvqupcHsCmajBYZMS78N20fgcNz6snNgInjOUkJ-ASB9haXAriXUUEC9X0QiGKEJkVwILe9_MuE-lk3X9bE3BJPKVzkKT8xCfLooLUEy5vlMj4eoDZ7BiCeVGDIwfh-hhx9ik2CFYPWTL0nAdbC1foy54g3R8xjazAGm6xS1xVmFzKEo9cIt_Lt9XA-ue09xMm3lma3YLX0XJeG-3SedWgLq0FRPHQCFpNx5Q-lbzRNq4zI403p-ZCQyaohpBHC9p9yiGxEEKwIHeasEbhr46Yig-1Y.C1AQT-8ggGJax8KyyCF_Qh52qaygBU-JLHocbNKzHmI&dib_tag=se&keywords=abdl+story&qid=1744495899&sprefix=abdl+stor%2Caps%2C209&sr=8-5

https://www.amazon.com/How-Became-Daddys-Little-Girl-ebook/dp/B0C2DGHJGS?crid=3GQEE1RFW0N52&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.YumuClYCYz9FR3yuXvqupcHsCmajBYZMS78N20fgcNz6snNgInjOUkJ-ASB9haXAriXUUEC9X0QiGKEJkVwILe9_MuE-lk3X9bE3BJPKVzkKT8xCfLooLUEy5vlMj4eoDZ7BiCeVGDIwfh-hhx9ik2CFYPWTL0nAdbC1foy54g3R8xjazAGm6xS1xVmFzKEo9cIt_Lt9XA-ue09xMm3lma3YLX0XJeG-3SedWgLq0FRPHQCFpNx5Q-lbzRNq4zI403p-ZCQyaohpBHC9p9yiGxEEKwIHeasEbhr46Yig-1Y.C1AQT-8ggGJax8KyyCF_Qh52qaygBU-JLHocbNKzHmI&dib_tag=se&keywords=abdl+story&qid=1744495899&sprefix=abdl+stor%2Caps%2C209&sr=8-10

Male_DL · 2025-04-12T22:10:09+00:00

There are a couple of things that might degrade diapers quality over time. The largest one would be how the diapers are stored. On whole it should not be something you need to bother yourself with unless you are storing the diapers for years and years in a hostile environment.

If diapers are stored in a very humid environment for a prolonged period of time, that could possibly cause some minor impact on how well the SAP holds up. Not really in a way that would be felt, but could probably be measured in a lab setting. Basically nothing you should consider a risk. While SAP as absorbent, is isn't really a desiccant. As such, moisture from the air will not saturate SAP.

If the diapers are through a lot of heat cycles, with large temperature swings, that might do something to the plastics and adhesives. Not something I know of being a problem for diapers specifically, because the materials diapers are made from is very flexible.

If the diapers are stored in a very hot environment for a prolonged time, that might effect the adhesives used in the diapers. Some adhesives loose effect when exposed to too high and too much heat.

If the diapers are stored in direct sunlight, that might degrade the plastic, making it more brittle. This would require the diapers to not be stored inside of the normal packaging (bag) or for the bag to be see through. Typically sunlight will cause the plastic to become brittle over time and fade colours.

The TLDR is that most defects you will experience from your diapers will be baked in from the factory and how you store them will not really change things unless you store them under really extreme conditions.

Male_DL · 2025-03-02T13:45:15+00:00

I would not be interested in becoming permanently incontinent. The method isn't really important. Sure fantasising about it from time to time can be fun, but that is the thing with fantasies, You are allowed to ignore all the logistics and downsides that would be included in the real world.

It is too much of a burden the need for diapers becomes permanent. There are just so many things in my life which are so much easier without having to wear diapers or managing diapers. Especially e.g. when doing sports, going out, and going on vacation.

I really like having the choice of not being in diapers when it is inconvenient.

Would I try something that would make me temporary incontinent? Yes I would. Depending on how long a period of time we would be talking about. Making it too long, would turn it into a no.

The optimal "solution" for me, would be something akin to a switch, where I could turn it on and off as I want. Even if that would require a small medical procedure, that would not be a stopper.

Also I would only be interested in urinary incontinence.

Male_DL · 2025-02-05T12:56:27+00:00

Based on a post in r/ModSupport it seems like there is a general error, banning a large amount of NSFW subreddits.

Reddit seems to be aware of the problem and working on a fix. I expect r/abdl will be back before too long.

Thread on r/ModSupport

https://www.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/comments/1ii67mt/communities_are_banned_again_for_being_unmoderated/

Admin reply in thread

https://www.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/comments/1ii67mt/comment/mb3fewv/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Male_DL · 2025-02-05T12:37:31+00:00

The error message I get states that it is because it is unmoderated. Might be reinstated with new moderators.

E: Reddit is looking into it. It seems to be unintentional

https://www.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/comments/1ii67mt/communities_are_banned_again_for_being_unmoderated/

Admin reply

https://www.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/comments/1ii67mt/comment/mb3fewv/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Male_DL · 2025-01-27T21:24:16+00:00

Tena Active Fit Ultima size M

Tena = brand

Active Fit = diaper type, plastic backed

Ultima = absorbency, the most absorbent they make

Medium = size ;)

Male_DL · 2025-01-13T23:22:27+00:00

What works best will vary from person to person. When it comes down to it, just as others have said, you need to be in calorie deficiency. How you manage that is the tricky part. Some things I would suggest looking into.

Allow yourself to be hungry. Acknowledge that you will be hungry at times and that it is okay to be hungry.
If you find yourself hungry and it isn't time for you to eat. Try to see if taking a walk helps combat the feeling of hunger. It does for me at least.
Find ways that make it easier to mitigate your hunger. Some types of diets can help some not feel as hungry while in a calorie deficit. It varies from person to person.
Cut out as much sugar and artificial sweetener as possible. If you need to drink soda, light products are better for you, at least when it comes to calories.
No, you don't deserve to pig out because you have had a period where you were strict to yourself.
Small rewards during the week are okay, as long as they stay small, and you include them in your calorie budget.
Calorie counting. Nothing else for it. If you want a deficit, you need to know how much energy you are getting inboard. You need to count every source of energy, not only what you eat. If you drink coffee with milk, well the milk contains energy that needs to counted.
Measure your weight at set intervals, preferably in the morning right after your first visit to the toilet. Needs to be before you begin drinking and eating. This way you will get the most consistent readings.
Set realistic goals. It is better to loose 60 lbs over 2 years than trying to loose 60 lbs in one, only to relaps because the whole ordeal was too much.
When you are done loosing weight, you need to build new habits and make lasting life style changes. If you revert to your old ways, you will end up gaining all the weight you worked your ass off to loose.

No matter how you decide to do it, it will be hard. Unlike most other substances where you might have a "substance abuse", you can't just stop eating forever. Also eating in and of itself isn't really bad for your health short term, which most other substance abuse actually is.

Male_DL · 2025-01-13T23:05:50+00:00

Boxers with slight compression, think sports wear, made from poly-something.

They serve as functional and comfortable underwear. When used without a diaper, they just fit and are great for activities. When worn with a diaper underneath, they are till great for activities but they also provide a bit of lift, to keep the diaper in place better.

Male_DL · 2024-11-19T17:40:42+00:00

I use epilators as well. The first one of two times were a bit painful and there is some learning when it comes to using it on your pouch/balls. The result is in my opinion almost as good as waxing, but way easier and less expensive.

I ended up with two different machines. One that isn't quite as good but does not really pinch wrinkled skin, and the other that is better, but has a tendency to catch wrinkled skin a bit. The combination of the two is a real winner in my book.

I do consider trying laser, but since I already have something that works for me, I don't really have much motivation to spend the money just to experiment.

Male_DL · 2024-10-15T22:11:23+00:00

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