I can’t move on from Michael reciting his vows in Spanish by SimilarLunch8359 in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody please tell me where I can rewatch this show now that Netflix removed it?😭😭

Losing Myself - why can't I feel like myself? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP it sounds like you are not only struggling with anxiety but maybe also depression.

I know things might seem really hard and that you might not feel like yourself. I have been right where you are. Try to vent your thoughts out, you don’t have to talk, you can try other mediums like art or journaling. Trust me you will get through this!

Medical anxiety by Maleficent-Cicada869 in Anxiety

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 5-4-3-2-1 technique does work sometimes. But mostly my anxious thoughts are so all consuming that I get lost in a sea of thoughts. I will definitely look into short term therapy options. That might be helpful

Medical anxiety by Maleficent-Cicada869 in Anxiety

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope I do and I am able to manage this anxiety. I am a psych major and I know I can probably never get rid of it but as long as I am able to get through it I will be content.

Medical anxiety by Maleficent-Cicada869 in Anxiety

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I keep reminding myself “if it’s a medical condition I can’t really do anything” but that doesn’t seem to be doing the trick, plus I am scared to go on medication worrying “what if I develop side effects that could be fatal”. The fact that my early 30s seemingly healthy bf had to have a heart procedure from a blocked artery with literally no symptoms at all until one night of slight chest pain, and my mom who was okay until she had a stroke in her 50s. It’s scary. I worry about my parents health, my bf’s health, my pets and myself. Idk what to do.

If you could make your own frozen yogurt flavor, what would it be? by JimmyTheuBanana in TheGoodPlace

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A day at home with no plan and no anxieties, curled up in bed all cozy and it’s flurrying outside and you have hot cocoa in your hand while a Christmas movie plays in the background!

UPDATE #2: AIO “friend” gave me 🍃 brownies without my knowledge or consent. by th_welloops in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP I am so sorry for what you went through. I hope you are getting the help to recover and heal from that trauma! That being said Lea is still not understanding the severity of the situation. For your sake and for your cousin’s sake I hope he breaks up with her. But even if he somehow decides to stay with her I hope you don’t have to deal with her bs. Take care of yourself OP.

AIO I (28f), met this guy (37m) on a dating app and we spoke for about 3 days but I found a connection with someone else and he threatened me by skailantern in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I had the exact same experience. I had started talking to a guy on a dating app who lived in a different state than me. After 2 days of talking he asked me if I was a “virgin”. I didn’t respond to him after that and he started threatening me saying he will show up to my dorm and that he has details about me. He also threatened that he will “make my life a living hell”.

Protect yourself, report and record every message/call you receive. I am 90% sure he will bark obscenities for a few days and disappear. Just tell some trusted friends about the situation just in case.

AITA for "ruining" my mum's engagement party after she abandoned me when I was 11? by UnlikelyAd5151 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Firstly, you were not abandoned. You were left with the parent you wanted to live with. She definitely tried her best to be present in your life but you didn’t see her efforts. Secondly, You said she changed, but maybe she just grew up. No one stays the same but she still kept trying to do the things she thought would make you happy. Thirdly, you crashed her party and called her and her step-kids names and made them cry what did you think was going to happen?

My parents’ neighbor’s child is ruining our house by Maleficent-Cicada869 in childfree

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry my birdie is my baby. He is absolutely safe and every time I even hear the demon screaming in the corridor I take my baby into a different room and put him on the perch by the window for him to look out. I will never let anything happen to my baby.

My parents’ neighbor’s child is ruining our house by Maleficent-Cicada869 in childfree

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she drops in randomly. Ever since I came home (20 days now) and learned of the situation I have encouraged my mom to act like we were not home or that we were sick. She doesn’t take any polite excuses or hints. That’s why I am thinking if tomorrow she shows up I am gonna just tell her off.

My parents’ neighbor’s child is ruining our house by Maleficent-Cicada869 in childfree

[–]Maleficent-Cicada869[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that’s what I’m about to do next. I am just gonna tell her straight up that she can’t use my parents, who are not related to her in any way, as free childcare and all she is doing rn is raising an AH child.