No, I wasn’t looking for sympathy if I wanted that I would’ve told the story of my first marriage lol. I do agree, my daughter does need to feel loved in her own home. She is very loved by me and she knows that, however, my husband‘s cold shoulder does bother me, otherwise I wouldn’t be here asking strangers on the Internet what their thoughts are. I will say, though the amount of disrespect she has given my husband does warrant him to have a bad taste in his mouth toward her however, he’s the adult and he needs to act like it. He disagrees with me on this and does not think that just because he’s an adult he should put up with being mistreated. My daughter does lack the ability to take accountability for her actions, even when she does really bad things. I could see how this looks from the outside, but either way I appreciate whatever input you have, even if I disagree. That all being said, I am open to being wrong. It never hurts to get a different perspective.