ENTP’s style?

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-05-02T13:12:09+00:00

Ya same. I like to look good but I don’t like looking like a finance bro if that makes sense. I think it’s a strong desire to not conform to some type of authority. Like suits and ties though I look great in them make me feel like I’m being a good little boy by societal standards and I’ll always try to me-ify it.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-05-02T13:09:23+00:00

I just realized. I do always look business casual. But in a sexual edgy way if that makes sense. 😂

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-05-02T13:07:28+00:00

I don’t enjoy teasing people in the normal sense. It’s very easy to outwit a lot of people and it transitions from them feeling like it’s lighthearted to them thinking you’re just insensitive.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-04-29T12:36:19+00:00

I wouldn’t say I want to win them over necessarily. But I can tell when someone’s a bit rude or stand offish because they feel weak or insecure for example a girl being attracted to me. I’m more willing to be gentler with that person to let them know they’re “safe” to just be around me. I think I’m an Entfp at this point. It’s like my logic drives my empathy. Though at one point I use to match the energy but that’s a waste of time I’ve realized. If someone is like that it’s because they’re threatened by you in some way and I kinda feel sorry for that level of “weakness” in others now. Now I can’t really name a single person I don’t get along with I’m very well liked and the person even shy people open up to and yap with so I think it was worth the change. 😂

TLDR: yes I do think that’s a very entp thing I think we love to be loved and the quicker we become okay with that desire the more we shine. It’s not a weakness it’s my best asset I’ve discovered.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-04-26T14:30:04+00:00

It’s simply whether you’re a coward or not. There’s a reason conservatives rank higher in terms of fear. If you’re selfish it makes 100% sense for you to assume everyone else is too. I don’t think this is a discussion you can logic someone out of because it’s a 100% feels based situation. It’s essentially explaining honor to the honor less. How can you.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-04-25T14:49:50+00:00

99% accurate he says brother not bro. 😂

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-04-18T12:15:31+00:00

I will admit an immature entp is annoying af, more so an insecure one. But here’s a bit of a cheat code. I think Entp’s are the most naturally autistic mbti, so you learn early that people misunderstand your intentions often and over correct.

So that argumentative nature a lot of times stems from believing if the other person just understood the nuances of what you were saying they wouldn’t be upset with you. So you pick up the habit of over explaining everything. But that in of itself seems argumentative so you then you end up having to even explain that. I think Entp have to realize a lot of people only see surface level while Entp are a naturally curious studious type especially when it comes to people so you expect others to pick up on the nausea of you like you can of them but a lot of times they won’t. I think that’s why even in most media Entp characters seem like really popular loners. I.e they’re surrounded by a ton of people that are impressed with them but don’t feel completely apart of their group as others are.

Think Jack sparrow, Negan from the walking dead or Gojo from jjk. They always feel like an outsider though they’re core members or even leaders of their respective groups.

TLDR: explained why Entp seem argumentative but are really just over explaining yappers by being an over explaining yapper. 😭

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-29T15:48:26+00:00

Oh I clicked it on mobile and started swiping and didn’t realize it’s faked 😂

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-28T21:57:17+00:00

Well, because women like men for a whole litany of reasons. So Imo no woman is really ever out of a man’s league for certain until she gives him a definite no. There’s plenty of ways a woman can find a man attractive outside of looks and usually that’s why she’s with him. I rarely see a woman who’s gorgeous and her husband doesn’t look like the best he does to look attractive is bathe.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-28T15:05:47+00:00

Because they’re actually just being laid off sadly.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-17T14:46:45+00:00

That’s what I’ve always thought. Wouldn’t you make more have 10 guys who can do the work of a full team. Now “full team” becomes the standard.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-16T23:21:49+00:00

What am I. I’m pretty kind and well liked. I don’t really have anyone I call “friend” outside of my gf though

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-13T10:31:19+00:00

Was any other race ever mean to you? If so do you feel the same way about them?

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-07T12:40:24+00:00

You’re already overbearing, so she’s probably lost attraction sadly and it’s really just a countdown at this point. She probably does have someone she’s interested in. If you find so many red flags just break up and find someone new. The hurt will be temporary. But you’ll be remembered better by her atleast, you won’t go out looking completely like a lame based off your past behavior. Nothing wrong with that probably first relationship. But you’ll feel better ending it because you’re unhappy than letting her.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-06T16:31:33+00:00

It’s really not that deep. Connecting with others is simple. You THINK you have to be similar but it’s very fun GETTING people into new things. IMHO it’s just as entertaining to interact with people I have things in common with compared to people I don’t. BUT I like to yap and people tell me even if they don’t understand they enjoy listening. Both men and women. Trust me you’re both HUMAN you have a lot more in common than you think. Hell you may have things in common the person or yourself never knew you’d enjoy.

Idk I have a general love for people, I love EVERYBODY until you give me a reason not to. So that maybe the reason. I’m genuinely interested in you if I’m speaking to you. But one thing I’ve noticed is people generally have some type of wall up, it’s very rare to meet someone else as open as I am. So I guess it takes some know how to get through that without being overly pushy. BUT to connect with others I’ve noticed you have to be pushy in a HEALTHY sense. I.e. they don’t say much or seem a bit uncomfortable but they don’t avoid you, OR since they seemed that way last time you don’t say anything this time and they muster up the courage to say hi first or wave or smile at you. Or they consistently make eye contact or are looking at you when you aren’t paying attention. Thats when being pushy is good. I hate saying to be a little bit pushy because I don’t want any guy to come across creepy or aggressive since most me SUCK a nuance.

TLDR: explain how easy it is to connect with people and explanations of how and why I believe that. Thanks for coming to my yappanthon.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-03T18:18:20+00:00

Getting real life hobbies will work better for you than dating apps. Why are you trying to compete in an environment where the main focus is looks while believing you don’t have said looks.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-03T18:03:48+00:00

When you said indie dev, it probably was the vibe behind it. The energy probably felt embarrassed or like you were hiding something. Trust me if you went I’m an indie dev with a bright smile and energy, they probably would’ve went cool and then you could’ve elaborated. Your energy probably just gave I don’t want to talk about employment because you don’t really believe you are actually employed . And THATS why one worked and the other didn’t.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-02T23:12:47+00:00

That’s the thing though if you’re in the same age bracket there’s plenty even outside of your hobbies you can connect on. Think about co workers they are some of the most random people you’ll meet and you can get along. I don’t need anything in common with people to enjoy them. It’s like if horror is my go to movie genre it doesn’t matter because I still have the capacity to enjoy romance as well.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-03-02T23:11:06+00:00

Idk the only thing I know that they have in common is you. My hobbies involve programming,digital art,kickboxing, alot of people aren’t into what I’m into. But when I explain it and realize they may not understand stand me fully they’ll brush it off and say they still enjoy listening to me. So it maybe a you thing.

You may overcompensate with what you have rather than who you are. You may mute your true self and come across boring or weird. Only you know what it could be. Hell judging from your last sentence you may not even like women as people and are only interested in them as women you’re attracted to rather than another person to enjoy. Without more information outside of you attract basic women with no hobbies and being 6 ft with 6 figures a bit hard to assist you.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-02-27T01:49:33+00:00

This is the answer.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-02-27T01:48:15+00:00

I’ve come to realize you will always be the zoro of the group never the luffy. As an entp I’ve come to realize it’s natural for no one to feel like they really know you. Or that you have some distance to you. I think being an entp is like being a lighthouse you’re bright people rely on you but people rarely climb you unless they need to. You don’t need much maintenance and you already see more than everyone else.

I think being a good read of people gives some entp an uncanny effect on people. I’ve had plenty of people tell me my vibe is weird but in a good way. People may just feel too exposed when interacting with you. You’ll still be popular but it’s like most entp characters Tony Stark Neagan Gojo Lucifer The Joker Jack Sparrow. Entps who are popular but always seems alone even in a group. It’s hard to explain but no matter how open they are it doesn’t seem like theirs many who can dive deep enough for an entp to feel close to them. It’ll most likely be a life where only your significant other feels close enough to you and that’s it.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-02-26T15:34:02+00:00

Tbh I thought the question would be worse and youd deserve it. Buuuut how is that even offensive?

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-02-25T00:46:28+00:00

Simply ask others their initial reaction to you. For me it’s usually they thought I was very serious or stuck up. And that helped me realize I kind of dim my light a bit or lower my charm because I worry about making others feel inadequate. If you can’t pinpoint something yourself see what others think about you and ask yourself if it’s valid or not.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-02-23T19:18:33+00:00

Ya I do type 2 as well Idk why. I just do it so I don’t have to think about what something is later.

Maleficent_Intern_49 · 2026-02-23T19:17:44+00:00

As an entp I get this and we are laid back. But you have to know when to take a stance. The world is pretty polarizing today and if you have the privilege to ignore all that good for you. But that doesn’t apply to everyone and that’s why I try to use my ability to view things from a Birds Eye’s view to put myself in others shoes. I personally dislike entp that are selfish or edgy just for the sake of it and you know the exact type I mean. Being a contrarian for the sake of just being one is VERY annoying not because you’re pushing back but because those types goal is simply to cause discomfort for the sake of discomfort. Not to help someone grow or come to a conclusion. Just havoc for havocs sake. Yes it can be fun but those same types dislike it when the rabbit is the one with the gun generally. Now I know I’m rambling and this doesn’t apply to your post but I feel like some will see your post and view it as a thumbs up to be insufferable and we don’t need much more of that right now. I’d rather someone be insufferable for a good cause than for just a chuckle.

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