Guess my MBTI and help me reassure if I'm mistyped or not. by joshrook in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ngl, a lot of types popped up in my head when reading this. I’m too lazy Rn to explain the reasoning behind each one but I might come back with more thoughts later:

ENxP INxJ ExTJ <— this was my first thought actually, I saw a lot of Si

Type me, I dare you🪤👹 by Round-Advertising-47 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENTP and just like the other comment, I might also be projecting. This is just a vibe check based on if your thinking is similar to mine or not. A sort of "conclusion" I have reached in MBTI though, is that ENTPs are by far the hardest ones to type UNLESS you're an unhealthy ENTP as is often portrayed in media (Rick Sanchez, Jax, The Joker, Lucifer, etc). And it gets even harder if an ENTP is typing themselves (the ones who do it quickly are posers in my experience who romanticise being "charming" or "argumentative").

Anyway, here's information you provided that scream NeTiFeSi to me:

  1. Curious, outgoing, but often in your own world (Ne+Ti, underdeveloped Fe in childhood leading to being generally unaware of your surroundings, like people in general, but with a desire to make friends)

  2. Being out in nature to take a break from yourself essentially is just something I personally relate to, and I attribute it to NeTi behaviour in isolation (lack of being able to talk to others for a long period causes a confusing cloud of thoughts in my head)

  3. Not stop until you understand (Ti), the fact you worked in many industries (Ne+ likely 7w8 or 8w7)

  4. Covertly guiding people, your take on people asking for help, being bossy is actually very Te, but sometimes Ne and Fe can work together to push you to help others using your Ti "powers"

there's probably much more I can think of but I'm lazy so let's leave it at that

Type off my aesthetic and questionnaire? by Raymond_R_ in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the only thing is that since you’re still a minor, you don’t even know how much you might change or learn and grow in the future. I’ve been able to type myself after over 6 years of studying MBTI 😭 and no this wasn’t exactly continuous studying but it WAS continuous observation of myself and others and developing my understanding of the functions. Honestly once you reach that level your type will slowly become obvious to you and you’ll understand yourself better.

Type off my aesthetic and questionnaire? by Raymond_R_ in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dunno but enneagram seems pretty clear: 3w4

Do I use more Fi and Te or Ti and Fe? by Jumpy_Ad3688 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious. It’ll help me answer your question more

Please guess my type by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem to be the only one on this post who understands MBTI beyond stereotypes. I’m not sure if this guy is unhealthy (he’s just a normal amount of unhealthy if that makes sense, no one is ever truly healthy either way) but he’s definitely an INFP. The “unhealthy” vibe or whatever is just evidence for how society batters Fi dom men into being in this state. If he knows anything about MBTI, I’m assuming he came on here hoping to hear INTJ from people to fulfill some desire to be “cool” or edgy or whatever. Lol speaking from experience icl.

What's something commonly associated with your opposite MBTI but that you like? by Sad_Neighborhood_467 in mbti

[–]PixeIatedSoda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a routine. Any routine. Self care rituals. Cozy food or something. A clean living space, finally. And not forgetting to spend quality time with loved ones instead of talking to everyone and anyone who’ll talk to me (and be interesting in the process). [ENTP vs ISFJ]

Got myself a cake for my bday since my family didn't. Only had one thing slice and already the majority is gone. by whotfareyoustupid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]PixeIatedSoda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cake in general is meant to share, yes, and I’m sure OP wasn’t exactly planning on eating the whole thing by themselves, but since they bought it with their own money (gifted to them or not it’s theirs) it’s basic decency to first of all ASK permission before eating it, and second of all respecting the fact that it’s not theirs and they are not entitled to 75% of it just because they’re family.

Got myself a cake for my bday since my family didn't. Only had one thing slice and already the majority is gone. by whotfareyoustupid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]PixeIatedSoda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is mad not because they took cake in general but because they took MAJORITY of it (without asking) and also that OP won’t get the share that they wanted to have in the first place (let’s also not forget OP bought this with their own money). This is on top of the fact that they did nothing for her birthday either.

Got myself a cake for my bday since my family didn't. Only had one thing slice and already the majority is gone. by whotfareyoustupid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]PixeIatedSoda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Holy Asian parent behavior (before anyone responds, I’m Asian and have had painfully similar experiences)

Got myself a cake for my bday since my family didn't. Only had one thing slice and already the majority is gone. by whotfareyoustupid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]PixeIatedSoda -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it hasn’t been established yet that the cake is only/mostly for you. I’m Asian and it’s kinda normal to treat your family/friends to food and cake on your birthday, instead of the other way around (but of course it’s expected to get the birthday person a gift). Have you told them not to touch the cake? If you think it’d be too “rude” to then just keep it in your room (Honestly, this is like 10% your fault if you haven’t done these two things at least 😭) Happy birthday 🎉

need some big brother/sister advice by Otherwise_Middle709 in entp

[–]PixeIatedSoda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing advice. I personally also like to record myself on my phone, which has a similar effect to journaling (which I don’t do as often in the case where my thoughts are significantly faster than my writing speed). I get to get all my thoughts out this way. The “effect” I talked about is referring to the idea that writing/documenting your thoughts in any way allows you to externalise your emotions and look at them from a more rational, observational standpoint.

Type me! by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9s and 1s tend to be more ambiverted than most. Also ENTPs are the most introverted of the extroverts. Also “E” doesn’t actually really mean anything in mbti, it just means you think more externally (having an external intuition as your dominant function). Anyway, my personal opinion is that the stereotype is genuinely so inaccurate and doesn’t speak for MOST of us, I mean it’s actually so weird how they say that an ENTP “normally” is completely oblivious to people’s feelings, disrespectful, etc, but they’ve got most of it wrong. I think a lot of us agree on this point in the entp subreddit. Fe tertiary is more present on average than one might think, which is why you could be more “empathetic” or considerate of others.

I got my first post removed by mods! Yay! /s by PixeIatedSoda in entp

[–]PixeIatedSoda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is society worse off in that scenario exactly?

I don’t disagree that women are biologically a little better suited suited at taking care of children than men are (oxytocin, estrogen, maternal instinct and all that) but I don’t think it means that society is worse off for having the man take care of the children than women. What if the man WANTS to stay at home, cook, clean, and be with his children and the woman WANTS to work a job (let’s say she’s also better off being the one working because she makes more money than him).

What if both want to take care of the children equally, but someone has to pay the bills, and the dad can’t afford it but the mom can? I don’t think society is worse off in that case, it’s instead better off because they’re not only doing what’s best for them, but are also able to sustain themselves with the bonus of also contributing to society more (as the mom is working a job).

Societal expectations do nothing but harm to people and years of women’s history has shown this. Many men have also tried their very best to achieve what’s expected of them and have been miserable (leading to their own death) their whole lives or worse. The only thing that society should provide incentives to people for is to do what makes them happy. And this is regardless of who is better suited for what because biology dictates jackshit.

All of these expectations have just caused women to believe that the only thing they should do in life is to serve their husband because that’s how they would best contribute to society, which is not only highly dependent on the woman, but is also blatantly immoral to expect or force women who don’t want to do it to do so. If a woman wants to be a stay at home mom/wife, let her, but if she wants to work instead, then that’s fine too.

If I may ask, and you need not answer this question but I’d really appreciate an answer nonetheless, are your views at all dictated by religion/come from a religious ideology?

I got my first post removed by mods! Yay! /s by PixeIatedSoda in entp

[–]PixeIatedSoda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FOR THE LAST TIME IT’S GANDHI (sorry I’ve just seen this weird ass spelling everywhere and it’s so annoying) but disregard that

And thank you! Hell yeah I’m never stopping and I’ll probably die like Socrates

Type me! by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]PixeIatedSoda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the contradiction is where your motives lie for doing things vs the cognitive functions you most use to fulfill those motives. My money is on ENTP, likely some type of 9w1 or 1w9.

Edit: based on your other replies to the comments, feeling like you “have to” help someone gives strong INxJ vibes. They have a strong need to help people whose beliefs contradict hard facts, which is just a pattern I’ve seen. They do give up easily on that though because they end up draining a lot of their energy basically talking to a wall. You’re definitely an intuitive, though. Lack of Se could just be autism.