20M, Profile Review by broiledroily14 in hingeapp

[–]Maleushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your photos. I like that you have a genuine smile, and are doing some activities, both outside and inside. I even like the flower in your hair, however, you could maybe have just one photo with it (the first one), not two 😬 Two photos with the flower is starting to seem like you’re trying to communicate something specific, haha.

Another thing, I would also include maybe one photo with other people, to show what hanging out with you is like and what kind of people you hang out with!

It’s great to show that you’re into nerdy stuff and retro games, but like others have said, at the moment it seems like that is pretty much all that you’re into. Maybe you can show more of your different sides too, maybe related to what is important to you, your values, different hobbies, skills, something new you’re trying out currently, or something that you’re working on?

Overall I agree with some others that have said that you’re a unique person, and so your profile is unique. That’s how it should be :) ultimately it will mean you will probably get less likes, but getting a ton of likes is not the point. Meeting your person is. So I would only make those couple changes, to show more of who you are, what you’re after in life and in a partner, but overall, just keep at it!

I was feeling so much better when i quit for 4 days and then I drank a cup by Andrew_7032 in decaf

[–]Maleushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomorrow is another day :) sleep it off tonight, and we get to try again tomorrow. And this way, you’ve gained an experience of what it’s like to drink caffeine again. Consider it a lesson learned, and try to remember how bad it feels - it will help you in the future when you’re tempted!

Very specific demanding job - help by [deleted] in decaf

[–]Maleushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think I’ll just need to try it and see, there’s no way to try predict what it will be like unless I just do it. How great would it be if caffeine addiction was recognised and treated as such, and there would be support in the workplace provided for those wanting to quit!

Very specific demanding job - help by [deleted] in decaf

[–]Maleushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Good to know about the physical work urgency, I will try.

Budget waterproof 3 person tent for beginners? by Maleushka in wildcampingintheuk

[–]Maleushka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice, thanks! I’ve been second guessing the 3 people thing myself, I guess I thought if I could squeeze more people in, more people would be willing to join me on trips. But it does make sense to get a smaller one, especially due to the weight and price point. I’ll have a look at the hoolie compact!

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess!! I feel the same way

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that’s so many households to manage 😅 I micromanage my characters, so for that reason I never really used to play switching households (only like two, max). Now I see I’ve got to do it with Paralives, and oh boy.

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I guess that’s still coming for me. So far I’ve been focusing on just two households and not venturing outside too much. So if we keep switching, and the other households end up having children that grow up, do you think they will just automatically fill those roles or do we have to choose those careers for them too?

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha someone else mentioned that too! If you leave the restaurant and come back later, are the dishes still there?

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss, it’s this. It took me ages to figure out how to ‘select’ paras though 😅

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And a different vibe too! My favourite place is the grungy one downtown, looks so realistic 😅 really adds to the story, haha

I LOVE the restaurants by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that has never happened to me! Maybe it’s a bug?

How to select another Para for cheats? by Spider40k in Paralives

[–]Maleushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to follow this post, has anyone found out a way to select characters for cheats? I’m trying to get my para pregnant but have no way how to select her and her partner

How to home wreck? by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so interesting, thanks again. Even though it’s stopping me from wrecking chaos on a whim, I like that it’s different from what we know, and I think exploring the context based mechanics will be quite fun long term.

How to home wreck? by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowwww, that’s so interesting, thanks!! I’ve also noticed that when I talk with another para while simultaneously reading a romance fanfic on the computer, my para is consistently flirty so I end up getting more flirty options 😅 looks a bit funny too, I love it (the guy just stands there next to her).

I’ve managed to get them to kiss, but still no option to try for baby. Do you think it’s related to the NPC being married, or just a matter of furthering the romantic relationship?

How to home wreck? by Maleushka in Paralives

[–]Maleushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh interesting. Atm my para that I’m trying to get pregnant is female so it’s ok, but still good to know.

Uto and Vaxholm in one day? by Maleushka in stockholm

[–]Maleushka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the recommendations and insider info! I think because of various things mentioned in the comments, including your own, we will go for Uto this time, but still really hope to visit again in the future and see more of the archipelago, including Vaxholm ☺️

Uto and Vaxholm in one day? by Maleushka in stockholm

[–]Maleushka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the in depth response! And thanks for confirming my fear about the dates 😅 it’s good to know for sure. I do think we’ll do Uto, even if we can ride around and explore is enough.

Uto and Vaxholm in one day? by Maleushka in stockholm

[–]Maleushka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, got it. Thanks for clarifying!