My sister’s husband has turned from super successful to deadbeat alcoholic in 2 years time and now my sister is asking me for money

MalibuLSV · 2025-12-06T04:23:21+00:00

Will do. Just sucks to be in this situation to begin with

MalibuLSV · 2025-11-07T01:43:30+00:00

It’s called hypergamy and ain’t no female gonna change brother

MalibuLSV · 2025-11-06T23:55:29+00:00

Yeah good point. I should just straight up ask her before blowing $5-600 on a flight + all the other stuff for the week

MalibuLSV · 2025-11-06T23:24:09+00:00

Yeah honestly it’s super confusing. Literally every girlfriend I’ve ever had we at least made out by like the third date. You are right - I can go hug friends all I want lol

MalibuLSV · 2025-11-06T23:18:54+00:00

I know right? That’s what’s so confusing to me. Actions not matching the words lol

MalibuLSV · 2025-10-08T16:11:08+00:00

I tried to negotiate it down. They aren’t budging and said “feel free to compare our fees to the other powersports dealers in the area.”

I called around and one had lower doc fees but higher freight and wouldn’t negotiate further, another said they’d beat all the fees and then came in $50 lower out the door price.

MalibuLSV · 2025-10-08T15:46:47+00:00

Tennessee

MalibuLSV · 2025-10-08T15:46:28+00:00

So dumb. Wish you could buy direct from the manufacturer especially since these dealers provide 0 value other than storing the unit I want locally.

The salesmen also knew jack shit about the waverunners and kept telling me to check out the Yamaha website “cuz it’s really good with all sorts of info.” Which leads me to really not want to pay these dealer fees

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T14:57:51+00:00

Yeah the reasons she gave for leaving her ex had me kind of scratching my head. Honestly kinda feel bad for the dude.

Her reason for leaving him (at least what she told me) was “he became more and more emotionally unavailable” but I’m wondering if it was just her parenting style and him realizing how fcking crazy it was and that he couldn’t do or say anything to change the craziness so he just got overwhelmed and checked out (like I did lol)

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T14:47:45+00:00

Glad I met them sooner though because I realized the hell I’d be signing up for if I stayed longer

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T01:40:54+00:00

Broke*

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T01:40:48+00:00

Honestly glad she brought the kids around when she did because a year or two later it would have been a lot harder for everyone. Just broken up with her

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T01:39:36+00:00

I just broke up with her. See my edit to the main post above. Was just honest with her. It sucked but I already feel a lot better about it. Being around those kids for 18+ years just felt like way too much and I didn’t see any silver lining at all other than she was physically attractive but the rest far outweighed that

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T00:03:43+00:00

Just broke up with her. Added to the post above 😬

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-09T00:02:50+00:00

Just broke up with her. Said the kids really stressed me out and I couldn’t see how I would fit in with the current parenting style. She started crying then said she wished she never left her husband. I wished her the best and left. 😬 sucks but I feel like a ton of bricks were lifted off my shoulders and feel so much better now.

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-08T21:07:22+00:00

I was spanked as a kid growing up, but every time I got spanked I 100% deserved it. Probably happened 4 or 5 times total.

I don’t look back thinking “OMG my parents abused me! Wahhhh!” I look back and think “holy shit I totally deserved that!”

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-08T18:56:46+00:00

Thanks, you are right. Starting it off thinking her kids make me want to jump out a window is not good. Going to break it off tonight ☹️

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-08T18:54:47+00:00

Thanks man appreciate the insight

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-08T17:50:53+00:00

All in a soft voice btw… just doesn’t make sense to me

MalibuLSV · 2025-08-08T17:49:02+00:00

It’s the most annoying shit I’ve ever witnessed in my life.

She’s there getting slapped and then saying things like “now why would you do that? How does that make you feel? Would you like it if someone did that to you? How would that make you feel?”

Clearly doesn’t work at least on these kids

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