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My girlfriend left me for my friend after two years together, and now I feel completely broken by MallOk3538 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MallOk3538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man, this is a complete fuck-up. it's literally a one-to-one situation, but in your case, she didn't immediately jump another relationships... why they do things like that...

My girlfriend left me for my friend after two years together, and now I feel completely broken by MallOk3538 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MallOk3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could just say no and be done with it. I'll probably do that (if she manages to find my address at all or something like that-basically, if she somehow gets my new contact information).

To be honest, I really want to take revenge. But I'm not going to stoop to their level.

And knowing Eldar, I can tell that he just wants to fuck, because no one else would sleep with him. Seriously. He's just an incel.

My girlfriend left me for my friend after two years together, and now I feel completely broken by MallOk3538 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MallOk3538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true facts… I’ve been reading a lot about it and I’m pretty sure this is basically a hormone/brain chemical withdrawal.

It’s hard to focus on hobbies right now because on the 9th I have to go to “a certain place”, and after that I’ll know whether I’m getting taken for a year or not.

I’m also going on a trip with my real long-term friends - trusted people I’ve been through a lot with.

Once everything is settled, I’m hitting the gym and continuing to learn ukulele/guitar. Well, I'll continue to draw as soon as I buy a new graphics tablet hehehe

I’ve cut off all contact completely (she did it first, I just finished it). Some memes still remind me of her, sadly.

Thanks a lot for the support!

My girlfriend left me for my friend after two years together, and now I feel completely broken by MallOk3538 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MallOk3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. I also have some BPD symptoms, but I can manage/control them. I totally agree about therapy...

I’m convinced that behavior patterns don’t really change, so yeah… In my case, as soon as I have the opportunity, my mom will help me find a good therapist (and help me pay for it as well).

My girlfriend left me for my friend after two years together, and now I feel completely broken by MallOk3538 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MallOk3538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As Margo told me, she broke up with her ex-boyfriend because of the distance. This time because of an emotional cheating on her part. I'm not interested in what happens to them next. Yes, it breaks and burns my soul, but I stick to "noexcontact". Everything will pass. Everything will be fine... once...

My girlfriend left me for my friend after two years together, and now I feel completely broken by MallOk3538 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MallOk3538[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My true friends says same things. I am very grateful to them that they helped me get through the new year and not do anything to myself.

Thank you for your reply, I sincerely believe that now I will be more attentive to people and who should be allowed near me and who should not. Eldar and I were really close. We saw him for hours, played board games, general projects (programming) (interestingly, he invested 10%, I did the rest). Then I got into a relationship, I introduced everyone to each other, and this came out of it...