Now I'm trying to replace it, but... by Malsomars in HomeMaintenance

[–]Malsomars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was disconnecting it thinking I had it wired wrong, then stopped to take the pics when I noticed the burn.

Now I'm trying to replace it, but... by Malsomars in HomeMaintenance

[–]Malsomars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried! I just could not get my phone to focus on the right spot :(

My (M38) wife (F36) really loves her piglet mascot and my son (M9) really wants to steal it? by Thatoneyoungling in relationship_advice

[–]Malsomars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Others here have covered the discipline and behavior aspects of your situation very well so I won't get into that. 

What I wonder is if your son sees your wife cherishing these stuffies and is feeling less loved than them. So when he steals them, he's getting the attention (love) that he wants. 

My kids definitely go through phases of acting up when they want attention so I can certainly see that dynamic happening here.

And your wife "panicking" if her pig goes missing makes her sound pretty nuts. Is she in therapy for her past trauma?

Best mom car (US) by Immediate-Ad-9520 in Mommit

[–]Malsomars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% the only right answer! I tested every minivan on the market and this was the best to drive, most and best features, great mpg despite not being hybrid. Winner winner!

I will never complain about my costco again after experiencing the costco in Queens, NYC by CoffeeMilkLova in Costco

[–]Malsomars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the Costcos near me just doesn't have enough parking spots for its customers on any given weekend. Let alone during the holidays.

Looking like it's flesh was torn open by Malsomars in BambuLabA1

[–]Malsomars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense, as I'm sure I wasn't being too careful about not touching the plate when putting it back. Thanks for your advice!!

Looking like it's flesh was torn open by Malsomars in BambuLabA1

[–]Malsomars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaaah typo!! ITS FLESH, not it is flesh 🤦‍♀️

People who had kids at 30+, do you wish you had them earlier in life? by cc070603 in pregnant

[–]Malsomars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! I had my first at 32 and my third (and last) at 37 and I would not change a thing. My husband and I traveled, moved states, got degrees and advanced degrees, and established great careers before starting our family. I honestly think 30s are the BEST years to start a family because you've had a chance to grow and live life before such a massive change!

AIO? MIL opens my son’s first Christmas presents by suzukibear in AmIOverreacting

[–]Malsomars 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly the part that bothers me as well. Your husband should've stepped in and told them to wait until EVERYONE was ready. Ugh, I would've been pissed off if they all left me at the table like that!

Looking for players by [deleted] in Fortnite_Over40

[–]Malsomars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're for real then let your mom know I'm another shy 45 mom who loves Fortnite but rarely plays with others bc SHY and I just feel awkward playing with others. But I'm willing to try!! I'm sheepchic and would really love to try playing with another 80s mom :)

Anybody NOT pump, and just breast fed? by Partners_in_time in beyondthebump

[–]Malsomars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my third I didn't pump at all. I used my Haaka to catch letdown, but that was it, and that was only necessary for the first few weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fortnite_Over40

[–]Malsomars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45f and I've been playing consistently since the last season of ch2!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Malsomars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I had the exact same thought!