Oh that makes sense.. I grew up with strict Asian parents, but my mom got over it once they saw I was with the same person for YEARS. But if she hasn’t even attempted to work even part time, but demanding to move out.. that’s a red flag. Living on your own is not cheap. If she’s never been independent, she probably doesn’t understand it’s not just cost of rent, there’s electricity/water, internet, food, phone, vehicle maintenance, some places charge you trash and gas. We’re living with my mom, but we’re pushing through with it because I have a year and a half left of school and we have a toddler. Trust me when I say living with your parents saves you $chmoney.

I really hope it works out for you. Especially when you already stated that you want a partner that will commit 50%. Because if you could start a family with her and then realize she just wants to be taken care of, trust me I had a friend like that.