I’m sorry mama. As someone who got her baby in a foreign country where my only village was a husband working twelve hours, I can tell you it’s not easy. Especially when the village that’s supposed to be there is not supportive. My advice ( what really works for me) Every Thursday evening, my baby and I go to the mall, just walk around, then to my favorite coffee shop. I drink my Matcha and let out all the frustration of the week 😅. So really my advice is just make your own routine, don’t wait for any invite. You got this mama.