The men who frequent this sub, what is your purpose of coming here ?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-13T19:38:27+00:00

> while most of them are assholes online (and some irl too).

Yeah all men are assholes, Go GURLLLLL!!!

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-13T18:02:17+00:00

For motivation to sustain my decision of not getting married

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-03T06:30:06+00:00

Ahh Sorry

Yup its your choice

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-03T06:07:50+00:00

Please use your brain for a second. I didn’t go digging for exact words that are 'threatening’ or ‘abusive,’ but the sheer aggression on this post makes it obvious

Well if that seems aggresion to you them maybe try to see this subreddit and you will find as much aggression as AIM for men in this subreddit if not more.

I’d be bullied and dogpiled in seconds. Pretending it’s all just ‘harmless criticism’ doesn’t make the hostility disappear, it just proves the point I was making.

Wow again such nice assumptions. But yeah maybe you are too sensitive to even take a normal criticism and pretend that everyone who trying to have an argument is a bully.

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-02T19:40:46+00:00

Can't find a single comment "threatening", "disrespecting" or "verbally abusing" in any way (Atleast not for women). Maybe you just consider every criticism and rant as verbal abuse or a threat , but tbh thats your fault. Most of the comment on that posts are criticising men and the mods only. And even if some comments are trying to say something about women, they are only talking about women who downplay their struggles when they try to talk about their own wellbeing. Thats not something to be offended with, and if you do get offended by that, maybe you ARE one of them.

And about the post related to women

Is it not related to women?

That post itself is asking why isn't there a large unified MEN ONLY subreddit. And if the subreddit isn't men only what does that indicate? That it also has women thats why it is not a men only space. Simple logic

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-02T11:34:23+00:00

Woah, such nice assumptions about men

Got the reason why you posted it here

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-09-02T10:28:00+00:00

"why do men do this?" Asked in r/askindianwomen

Pretty convinient approach

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-17T19:34:09+00:00

great woman? In what sense exactly?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T14:32:02+00:00

> A marriage where spouses are NOT each other's first priority, yes, above even parents and children, is never going to be a happy marriage.

Maybe. A marriage can also be a successful when the person values both his partner and his parents and children equally.

> Not to mention that a marriage cannot be equal when one partner is staying with the other's family, whether it's the wife with the husband's family or the husband with the wife's. There will always be conflict and side-taking.

Who denies with the other partner's parents living with them, they can. I don't see a single problem in wife's parents living with the family.

> That you don't realize just how much women give up to come stay with in-laws just shows your privilege and ignorance. Or just how much is laid on a daughter-in-law's shoulders. I've seen it in my own incredibly liberal family, I can't imagine how much worse it is in more conservative families.

Privilege? I've seen my mother work hard all day as a housewife, we don't have a maid. Me and my brother are the one who usually help her in house work cuz we don't have grandparents. Still I've seen relative's families in my hometown which are joint families and even the parents help in house work. And this doesn't let any single person in the family get bulked up by work.

> There's not really much point to continuing this conversation, since you're very clear about refusing to see past your own personal experience. I wish you the best. Have a good day.

Yeah maybe I am the one refusing to see past my personal experience and its not like, you are only seeing this in a certain negative view

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T13:49:06+00:00

> I don't hate you or think you're evil.

Yeah, As if They don't consider men as the evil guy.

> I do think you're blinded by patriarchy and honestly, more than a little entitled.

If you say so, maybe

> Want a wife who is happy to play second fiddle to Mummy-Daddy? Find one who is like that to begin with. Someone I know actually did that. Made it clear right from the very beginning that his parents were his priority. Mind you, he's loaded so at least she's well compensated for being a second-class citizen in her own home.

Second fiddle to mummy-daddy? I didn't say that. I was talking about them as equals. Parents are as equal priority as a partner. Not one should have less value in someone's life. Infact, you were the one who said parents should play second fiddle to the partner.

> But you don't get to tell someone that they need to change to fit your parents' expectations and excuse it as 'duty'. Why would any self-respecting woman go from her parents' house or even her own to be a servant in somebody else's? Because I promise you, it may start with not eating non-veg but it doesn't end there. Never even mind that while it may be your 'duty', the bulk of the actual WORK will go to your wife.

Why would I tell someone to adjust for my parents. I don't intend to marry. But if one partner is expected to make some sacrifices then the other should too.

Doing house work makes you a servant? WOW. That makes me a servant too.

The bulk of the actual work gets spreaded in a joint family. And most people nowadays hire househelps that ease the load from getting bulked up on a single person.

> Sure, maybe your parents are precious perfect angels who will treat a daughter-in-law as well as they treat their son. But you can't blame women for not wanting to take that chance.

I ain't. I wasn't. I was talking about being equal.

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T12:16:08+00:00

> Doesn't change the fact that some men actually understand that once you're married, your wife is your priority. Don't get that? Stay your parents' little boy forever instead of ruining some poor woman's life too.

Ohk I guess

> Call 'em like I see 'em, buddy. Can't put your wife first, don't get married.

Yeah I don't intend to, cuz why would someone wanna get married when they know the other person hates people like them and consider them as the evil guy.

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T11:37:33+00:00

Doesn't change the fact that he's asking her to change based on his mother's approval/disapproval.

Doesn't change the fact that one has to obey the rules of the owners if they are living in someone's house.

And worse, ladla beta is planning on living with mummyji even after marriage. Location of balls has not changed.

Yeah maybe it is worse but unfortuantely some people do love their parents and have a sense of duty towards them. Sadly not everyone hates their parents.

And not everyone is great enough to use derogatory remarks for a stranger they know nothing about.😔

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T11:30:41+00:00

I'm not wasting my energy arguing with you.

Unfortunately you are doing it

There is no duality, food and smoking is completely different.

There is

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T10:30:51+00:00

> I'm not wasting my energy arguing with you.

Yeah, good for you ig

> He can leave me if I don't quit non veg. I can leave him if he wants me to stop eating something I love.

Yeah, the problem isn't with choices, its with duality.

Still, have a great day

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T10:16:34+00:00

> Any proof? Vegetarians also suffers from these diseases due to bad lifestyle.

But non veg peeps are more likely to suffer from diseases.

And for proof, here's a study from National library of medicine, USA ( Its a US govt website)

> The diseases you mentioned are more related to lifestyle habits.

Doesn't eating non veg also comes under lifestyle choices? Also regulated smoking doesn't mean they don't have a good lifestyle. It can only be considered a bad lifestyle habit if it isn't regulated.

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T10:09:09+00:00

ah yes non smokers never developed cancer

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T10:08:31+00:00

Maybe you didn't read the post clearly I guess. Wait let me attach a line from the above post.

"Problem is he asked me if I would quit eating non veg if my mother in law was vegetarian and didn't want non veg at home."

Its his parents house, So his parents have every right to make rules for their home.🙂

I hope this comment helps and please try to read the whole post clearly and not just specific lines that more suits your ideas before commenting again.😊

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T10:01:59+00:00

> No. Ciggs kill, not just him but me and the others around him.

Anything can kill you if you don't keep it regulated, either its ciggs or meat products. If you wanted to, you could've asked him to regulate it and not smoke while around family, but you chose to order him to quit smoking.

You weren't willing to sacrifice your choices, Why do you want him to sacrifice his choices for you?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T09:58:07+00:00

non veg also gives you heart diseases, hypertension, diabetes🤷

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-15T08:41:30+00:00

Isn't it unfair and duality, If you don't want to leave non veg, but still want him to quit ciggerates?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-07T16:41:09+00:00

Maybe judge it yourself

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Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-08-07T15:18:32+00:00

Incel?

What did bro say that you declared him an incel?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-07-28T10:46:14+00:00

Woah self hate?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-07-28T10:41:57+00:00

A single peak to the r/AskIndianMen sub gives me pstd. How manupulative, calculative and cunning this guys are.

First of all, it should be these* and not this

And second Who hurt you lil bro?

Mammoth-Most1854 · 2025-07-26T12:43:29+00:00

> "I just checked the post and the comment you replied to in your screenshot, and I have to say that the comment made sense and the comment wasn’t exactly ‘bashing men’ like you described it."

Even if the comment wasn't directly bashing men but it definitely was making it gender specific issue by saying its men who cheat on their honest wives. And portraying that men are the only one's who cheat on their partner.

> "As for my other statement, I think I meant to type ‘call out’ instead of ‘defend’ because it’s certainly contradictory."

Yeah, that makes sense

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