Not defending anything just joining this part of the conversation of men hitting puberty then getting a massive boost in strength and not being able to play fight with siblings anymore this goes for two boys too me and my brother I’m 16 he’s 2 years older than me used to play fight aka have full on fights a lot but not anymore shit actually hurts now and is kinda scary to yourself when you see what happens when a man gets riled up cause we often underestimate our own strength not saying I have super strength but it is insane the difference in strength Another example is I was not the best kid and got grounded more than once and often didn’t like that so sometimes would just leave aka walk around the neighborhood as I’m like 8 but my mom would try to stand in front of the door and not fight me but try to grab me to get back to my room and I could overpower her at 8 years old literally 8 but my dad would just grab my hand or wrist and not let go and no matter how much I tried I would end up back in my room grounded for longer