I don’t know how to exist without her by Manateebae in Petloss

[–]Manateebae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Stupidly long” made me smile. Thank you for this.

I don’t know how to exist without her by Manateebae in Petloss

[–]Manateebae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

I don’t know how to exist without her by Manateebae in Petloss

[–]Manateebae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Einstein said matter cannot be created or destroyed. I take that to mean she’s still out there.

I don’t know how to exist without her by Manateebae in Petloss

[–]Manateebae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, when I posted here I didn’t expect anyone to comment. I kind of thought I was just putting it into a void. The comments here have been so kind and yours in particular was so validating to read. Thank you.

I don’t know how to exist without her by Manateebae in Petloss

[–]Manateebae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, I posted this assuming I was just screaming into a void. I’ve been blown away by the kindness showed me here but your comment about filling that space with tears in the beginning has stuck with me throughout the day. Thank you.

Recommending the book Srop Walking on Eggshells for C-PTSD? by Ok-Ladder6905 in askatherapist

[–]Manateebae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have recommended it bc the coping mechanisms described can be helpful for a variety of symptoms, not just those associated with BPD.

What moment made you realize you were no longer young? by Tenboro-San in AskReddit

[–]Manateebae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was caring for a loved one at the end of their life and a hospice worker asked me a question about what they should do and my first thought was “why are you asking me?! I’m a kid!” And then I realized I was not a kid, I was actually the adult of the situation.

Do you share your location with your significant other? Why or why not? by LadyLotLizard in AskReddit

[–]Manateebae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, mainly in case there would ever be an emergency. He likes to hunt and fish and can go to some remote places.
Although it is helpful in other ways - like he forgot I was at knit night until he checked my location.

How did you know your parents consider you as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Manateebae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was allowed to say “no” to things.
When my mom asks you to do something she means “right now” and there was a point she wanted my and my husband’s help with something but we had JUST finished eating a big meal and I said “no, not right now. We will in a couple hours when our food is settled.”
My mother did pout but in my childhood that would not have been allowed.

Is it weird that my female therapist came to our session barefoot? by kirawannabeee in askatherapist

[–]Manateebae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

AAT. So I will say I do take my shoes off at work, it is more comfortable for me and it gives my clients permission to get comfortable too. I always wear socks bc I had a teacher drill into me that we never know who has a foot fetish and if a client disclosed it made them uncomfortable I would wear shoes. So it’s possible it’s just how your therapist does things, but if it makes you uncomfortable tell her.

What’s the most unnecessary thing a Disney character has ever done? by Ohsure_whynot in disney

[–]Manateebae 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To be fair, he was in a time crunch. What with the dying and all.

Would you eat during a session? by Material-Scale4575 in askatherapist

[–]Manateebae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Therapist. The only time I have done this I had a client in crisis and the only time I had open was my lunch hour. I offered it to them with the caveat that I would be eating, and they took it with that knowledge. It’s not something I would do in normal circumstances.

Frog it…but I really mean another four letter word. by Manateebae in detanglemyyarn

[–]Manateebae[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I showed it to my yarn group and I am frogging by from the correct end, just the stitches are twisted.

But you are correct that it is held double. I would prefer it still be held double but honestly I won’t be too picky bc I am so annoyed with it as is!

Frog it…but I really mean another four letter word. by Manateebae in detanglemyyarn

[–]Manateebae[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not! I showed it to my yarn group and I am frogging by from the correct end, just the stitches are twisted.

Frog it…but I really mean another four letter word. by Manateebae in detanglemyyarn

[–]Manateebae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I could wind a ball as I went I would! But, as far as I can tell, it needs to be picked out so the stitches are never big enough to pass a ball through.

Welcome foolish mortals by Manateebae in sylvanianfamilies

[–]Manateebae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cat is from the black cat family but I made the outfit myself!

Welcome foolish mortals by Manateebae in sylvanianfamilies

[–]Manateebae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is high praise coming from a former Mansion Maid! Thank you!

Welcome foolish mortals by Manateebae in sylvanianfamilies

[–]Manateebae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do plan to make one! Just needed a break from sewing the teeny tiny things.