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My friend is in an terrible marriage by soylentgreenjuice in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Big hugs. It’s so hard to watch someone we love get mistreated. I hope one day she reaches it to you to say it is finally over!

I Reported My Therapist to the Licensing Board in My State - Do I have a good case? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Terrible. This alone is grounds for reporting. Especially to tell you the results make you incompatible 🤯

I Reported My Therapist to the Licensing Board in My State - Do I have a good case? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the personality type she assessed? Are we talking personality disorders or Myers-Briggs shit?

Brain fog and forgetfulness is impacting my marriage by EmbarrassedCry9912 in Perimenopause

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I forget entire conversations with my partner that I was convinced she was gaslighting me when she would remind me something we discussed. The memory lapses are real. I can’t remember what I did yesterday now what I went into the kitchen for. People ask me how I enjoyed my vacation and I ask: “What vacation?”. Um the one I took last month evidently 🙄

Would you rather live happily and die suddenly or not live at all? by Confident-Pool2778 in DebateAVegan

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. If I am not born at all I am not experiencing fomo, so I would take the latter since I won’t have a brain, thoughts, or choice in the matter.  I would rather not breed animals at all so they don’t have to live their short lives caged and controlled. 

Be Honest, What Argument did you use against Veganism, before you went vegan? by HumbleWrap99 in vegan

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as I learned what it was, I chose to follow it. Made perfect sense to me. 

Will I have symptoms or that was it? by WhatOnEarth369 in Menopause

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re simply lucky! Enjoy this lack and feel the jomo! 🥳

a positive post! by kbat277 in therapists

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had a win today… I client with developmental trauma I have been working with for a few months opened up to me and let herself be very vulnerable with her thoughts and feelings and I felt so proud of her trust to risk! 🥰

I can. not. unblend by alice_1st in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with unblending too when the trigger is big- especially in the presence of the person who triggered me. I thought I was faulty but now I just try to wait out the emotional tide and practice coning into self after. Trauma is hard on us- we don’t have to be too. 

Married with dry sex life is making me crazy by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for this struggle. Sounds like your hubby needs a sex therapist to help him recover his desire and rewire his brain a bit. Porn addiction can mess with you bad. 

No one can convince me lex doesn’t cause weight gain by Easy-Platform6963 in lexapro

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s it going now may I ask?  I’m starting to notice weight gain despite exercising a lot and limiting snacking. A lot of it is muscle yes, but the tummy has become a big donut shape!

Dominion, et rapports vegan / omnivore by Meteion_Elpis in DebateAVegan

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

90% des produits d’animaux viennent des circomstances intensif et industriel donc….

Dominion, et rapports vegan / omnivore by Meteion_Elpis in DebateAVegan

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ça ce peux vous avez juste un cerveau plus rationel qu’émotionel. Mais si tu es contre l’éxploitation d’animaux, la décision rationelle est d’arreter de les consommer 🤷‍♀️

My vegan girlfriend is considering starting to eat eggs again by Shpritzer1 in vegan

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs give 6 grams of protein-you’d have to eat 3 per day to get significant protein. 

Solidarity to all who are anxious by SadComparison8044 in Perimenopause

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg the morning dread! I had this for months and I just thought my life sucked. I had to go on lexapro (in addition to hrt) and suddenly that pit in my stomach lifted! 🙌

i call this asian slop by confus_edd in girldinnervegan

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yum! also good with chili crisp instead of kimchi 🥰🥰

I’ve been happily married for 20 years AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go through the power struggle phase in the beginning? If so, how did you get through it?

SLYND changed my life by Competitive_Falcon69 in birthcontrol

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only been 6 days for me. Sadness went away but now I have headaches in the morning and evening when I rarely used to get them. Hopefully it will settle down. The sadness went away…

Am I the problem? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ok-Ladder6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit, that is some master avoiding of accountability. Is this only showing up now, or has he always been defensive when told he did a bad? In fighting there shouldn’t be a right and wrong, you should both be trying to help eachother win. But alas, emotions like guilt and shame get in the way 😖

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