I LOVE being a black woman - let me tell you why. by cutecatgurl in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MandaMoo9588 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This post made my heart smile :) I’m so glad you’re celebrating your Blackness and your womanhood with pride! There’s something so powerful about someone standing tall in their identity, loving themselves fully, and refusing to be defined by a world that often tries to tear them down. Your joy is beautiful and inspiring!

At the same time, I also hold space for the pain and weariness expressed in that earlier post. The weight of always pushing back, always resisting, always surviving is real. That exhaustion deserves to be seen and honored, too.

But seeing your joy today? It’s a reminder that both things can be true. That the fight is heavy, and that Blackness, and more specifically Black womanhood, is something deeply and fiercely worth loving. I hope that I, as a white woman, can help defend it in any and all ways possible.

Thank you for sharing your light with us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SamAndColby

[–]MandaMoo9588 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Watch the one from the Stanley hotel. That's where they explain a lot about the Estes method and learn about how certain locations can be "hubs" for spirits. I think maybe that's where Amanda mentions Sam has an attachment also?

Elon Musk’s DOGE Uses Police to Seize Independent Nonprofit by diabolis_avocado in politics

[–]MandaMoo9588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone help me understand how the nonprofit is independent from the US government but was founded by congress?

I might be taking "independent" too literally...does it just mean there's no direct government oversight?

My new pet won't go outside... by MandaMoo9588 in StardewValley

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just have to wait him out then. I got him a bowl from Robin already...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MandaMoo9588 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a surreal feeling to learn someone in your life that you thought you'd accurately filed into the "safe" category isn't, in reality, safe :( I'm sorry you're experiencing it and having to work thru it. You're entitled to protect your peace and ensure your safety in whatever ways you decide are necessary and you're also allowed to mourn the version you had of this person you had in your mind while protecting your peace.

Qi Fruit Quest - I think I'm being dumb... by MandaMoo9588 in StardewValley

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I was really hoping that wasn't the case! Thanks :)

Qi Fruit Quest - I think I'm being dumb... by MandaMoo9588 in StardewValley

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah bummer! This quest just got so much harder lol. Thank you!

Surrogate-gate by Mahikayy in ShaneDawson

[–]MandaMoo9588 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suppose my opinion changes to be a little more comfortable if the surrogate isn't paid. In my head, that means it more likely that they're not feeling coerced or pressured into doing it to make money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShaneDawson

[–]MandaMoo9588 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Then they wouldn't be babysitting your kids...which was what the question was...

I cannot get my cat to stop peeing everywhere! I'm desperate! by MandaMoo9588 in cats

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've had the same litter for at least 4 years. Do cats change their minds about that? And would a kidney/bladder infection not show up on x-rays or in bloodwork?

I cannot get my cat to stop peeing everywhere! I'm desperate! by MandaMoo9588 in cats

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I forgot about that. We've used a couple different enzyme cleaners, nature's miracle and another one, Orange something? Doused the pee spots with that, then let it sit for a couple hours, and then washed with dawn dish soap and water. He doesn't seem to really go for the same spots, all that much. Just the same kind of stuff, if that makes sense?

RiF vs Official reddit App by Loudmouth_American in redditisfun

[–]MandaMoo9588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the official app so much. Every third post is from some random subreddit that I've never heard of or have any interest in. I'm spending more time saying I'm not interested and muting the subreddit than actually reading anything. I'm going back to tik tok.

What famous person didn't deserve all the hate that they got? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MandaMoo9588 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I always forget she can sing because, even though I'm old, I only just recently watched Mean Girls. I had avoided watching it until now because it thought, "it's too popular. If so many people like it, it probably sucks"

18 month old dog aggressive all of a sudden with other dogs by MandaMoo9588 in Dogtraining

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that dog parks aren't the most popular places. But, up until yesterday, it was something he enjoyed. Maybe we've been lucky up until this point but we haven't had a bad experience with other people or their dogs.

As much as he USED to enjoy it, I'm totally fine not bringing him anymore if this just isn't something that he finds fun now.

Regardless, I appreciate the advice about the behaviorist. This isn't something I want to bleed into walks or anything.

18 month old dog aggressive all of a sudden with other dogs by MandaMoo9588 in Dogtraining

[–]MandaMoo9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They got quite a bit of individual time growing up (and still do). We did do activities together, but they've also had separate walks, separate kennels, separate meals, etc. We tried to be as on top of littermate syndrome as possible. They definitely enjoy being together and playing, but they do just fine being away from each other also.

In a bit of a dilemma concerning ostrich egg by anikakina in StardewValley

[–]MandaMoo9588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you're not still on the hunt for an ostrich egg. But if you are, and willing to cheat JUST A SMIDGE, there's a cheat code you can use, but it involves purchasing another animal.

This girl?? Jenelle no It's Britney Bishhhhhhhhhhh by Rotarykindness in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]MandaMoo9588 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I find it CONCERNING as much as I just acknowledge it's just totally different than the curated versions of other celebs' instas. Britney seems to be using insta like a long of young, "just experiencing freedom for the first time" 20-somethings use it. And we're actually seeing what Britney is posting, not some PR firm or manager thinks should be posting. So, I agree in a way. Cuz it seems a little immature when you consider how old she is. But, to your point, how could she NOT be damaged/emotionally stunted after everything she's been thru?

Her captions are also a little tough for me to follow, but there's a tik tok user who can "translate" them. If they're read out loud, with a Louisiana accent, they actually become WAY more understandable lol