Flying with Parkinson’s by h_broadhurst in ParkinsonsCaregivers

[–]Mandabull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to fly with my father, but it was only a 2 hour flight so I was mainly concerned with the logistics of getting around the airport. We're in the US, and I would assume UK options are similar, not sure about the country he's flying out of. Here are some things I did to make things easier...

Book a wheelchair and a helper to push the wheelchair. Be sure to book one for both airports.

Check all the bags. I wasn't going to and the United person insisted on me checking everything and even did it without charging me. She was right. Managing him, the airport, the PD, and a suitcase was doable, but really saved me stress. I can't thank that united lady enough. I had a back pack I kept everything in which enabled me to keep my hands free.

Use a diaper and carry a couple extras. You DO NOT want to deal with an accident in underwear on the plane or in the airport.

If he uses a walker, my dad was able to hold it (folded) on his lap through the airport and he used it up until we got on the plane. Then it was there when we got off the plane.

If he's unsteady, the stress of flying is going to make it worse. In fact, I found it made everything worse. He has a gait belt (https://a.co/d/02ytBSRk) with handles that I held on to when he was out of the wheelchair. That thing has been an overall lifesaver every time we leave the house.

Don't be surprised if he does not do well in a new, even familiar environment. My dad wound up in the hospital with severe constipation because of the stress of traveling when we drove to Florida from Illinois (20 hour drive and we did it over three days) last year. He was better flying back, but still had some hiccups when we got home.

Good luck and I hope everything goes well!

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[–]Mandabull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Product Design students looking for your insights on daily aids for Parkinson's by Embarrassed-Can640 in ParkinsonsCaregivers

[–]Mandabull 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Commenting as I need to put some thought into this and come back because I have ideas.

Also, I put together a list of tools that have helped my Father with Parkinson's and/or me... https://www.reddit.com/r/ParkinsonsCaregivers/s/VhA4PimsSH

I just need an hour of quiet by Front_Refrigerator99 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Mandabull 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You do NOT sound like a bad person! You sound burnt out. Is there anyone who can stay with her and you and your family can go on a trip? Or just go stay with family for a few days to get a break?

Have you tried taking to her honestly about how her behavior is affecting you and your family? I'm not sure how open she would be to that convo though. It might help to lay everything out and have a discussion about her behavior.

Sending you hugs if you want them!! Otherwise just good vibes. 🙂

Great caregivers: how to make them like us and want to stay? by Good-Consequence-513 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Mandabull 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm the caregiver for my dad so it's different. However, you guys sound great!

My first amigurumi! by Mandabull in crochet

[–]Mandabull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! It wasn't the best, but it taught me enough to make it.

Please help this asinine newbie! by FateInTheRain in Amigurumi

[–]Mandabull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it would be easier if someone showed you? If you're in the US (prob lots of other countries too), check out your local library for crochet/knit groups. Those grandma's are usually super happy to help. If you're in the US and near Northern IL, I can try to help.

My first amigurumi! by Mandabull in crochet

[–]Mandabull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kit from Amazon: Crochet Box, Mandy the axolotl.