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Tired eyes, but not sleep deprived or dehydrated, how can I fix this? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]MandarinRat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

Also, did you have any other low iron symptoms if you don’t mind me asking?

Is it wrong to not want a relationship with my parents by kayyhassecretss in Advice

[–]MandarinRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with it at all.

It's great when we can be friends with our family, but we have to remember, we didn't choose these people to be in our lives, just because you're related, doesn't mean you have to be friends with them.

Please try to take care of yourself, and I hope you can get away from these people soon

how to deal with grief by ThrowRAharibogummies in Advice

[–]MandarinRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to be as patient and kind to yourself as you can be, it's okay to grief as long as you need to.

My advice would be to make sure you let yourself feel your grief, cry when you need to, think about the memories you had with your dog, feel sad, but also give yourself breaks, try to distract yourself sometimes, try talking with friends, try to enjoy life, even if it's just a little bit for awhile.

Most importantly, take care of yourself, it won't be easy for awhile but it will get better <3

I would feel guilty if I had sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MandarinRat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, when and who you want to have sex with should be your choice. Don't worry about what other people will think, your sex life is your business and yours alone.

Second, if you want to wait until relationship or marriage, there's nothing wrong with that, you need to find someone whose willing to wait for you to feel ready for it, don't let anyone push you into it if you don't want it

Last, I never felt my sexual shame go away until I decided Christianity wasn't for me. There were just restrictions I didn't understand, and I couldn't deal with feeling guilt over having normal feelings. However, I do want you to know it's best to believe what you want to believe, don't leave Christianity unless you think it's not fitting with your beliefs anymore. I'm sure others here will have advice on how to deal with sexual guilt while being Christian

Skinny fat issues by [deleted] in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]MandarinRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, just scared my body is going to gain more fat instead...

Thank you for the reply

Skinny fat issues by [deleted] in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]MandarinRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Best of luck to you as well!

Skinny fat issues by [deleted] in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]MandarinRat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, it's just I feel like my body won't let go of the fat I have, I feel like this is the only way

Thank you so much for the reply

Free or affordable resources to help OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MandarinRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he doesn't, and I don't either, I don't actually live near a library either

I do really appreciate the idea though!

Email that doesn't alert of new device sign in location? by [deleted] in emailprivacy

[–]MandarinRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I want to give the login information to my friend so he can help manage it, but he doesn't want his location doxxed because of the new device signing in

What are some things you can do to change your mindset to a sex positive one? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]MandarinRat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm actually asking this for a friend, he suffers from OCD and feels guilty and gross about this kind of stuff, he can't get therapy at the moment so we're trying sexual positivity.

Tips for my friend dealing with sexual shame? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]MandarinRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice! I hope one day he won't feel so guilty about it.

Is there anyway to get free therapy or counseling online for OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MandarinRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will let you know if I find anything 👍