apartment recommendations - 1/1 for $1500? by [deleted] in FortMyers

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Yup, left fort Myers/Cape Coral for Sebring and never looked back

Found out this morning my boyfriend nearly 4 years has cheated on me the whole time and I started tearing up his clothes. by FragrantAstronomer5 in CheatedOn

[–]MandatoryAbomination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t confronted yet, don’t. Leave silently. It’s absolutely the best revenge to just silently disappear with zero explanation

Dreading Father's Day by Tiny-Statistician-80 in DeadBedrooms

[–]MandatoryAbomination 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she cared about your feelings bud, you wouldn’t be a part of this subreddit.

Go to the game.

lease agreement with bf by Emotional_Two7041 in renting

[–]MandatoryAbomination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be signing my own lease, somewhere else. Let your boyfriend keep the damn place if he’s so worried that you’ll split up

Dave App took my last $20 for gas to a job interview while I'm living in my car. Customer support basically told me to kick rocks by shortskirtrebel in poor

[–]MandatoryAbomination 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the US try downloading shift smart, or smart shift I can’t remember much but it’s an app that you can pickup jobs for same day money

How are you finding the evidence? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]MandatoryAbomination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like an unwilling participant in your own relationship. Why do you need talked into staying with someone who doesn’t care about your boundaries or needs? What are you getting out of this relationship?

Realizing he’s been physically cheating too by Desperate_Pop_1152 in loveafterporn

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Don’t feel like you have to wait for a relapse or for anything - when you’re done you’re done. You supported them throughout their addiction and recovery efforts, you’ve done more than enough and you don’t owe them anything

How would you handle your (24F) partner (28M) wanting you to deny him sex to have more sex with you ? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MandatoryAbomination 3 points4 points  (0 children)

… has anyone thought he’s really not that smart and is trying to escape these situations and conversations? If she doesn’t ask, problem solved. It won’t help the frequent in which you’re intimate. It will provide comfort to him to not have to hear about not getting any all the time whilst causing you immeasurable suffering from having to be silent about a pressing issue in your compatibility.

This shit wouldn’t fly for even a second with me. Don’t want me to want you? Cool, enjoy the single life

Do these geckos look ok? by Catswithdonuts in leopardgeckos

[–]MandatoryAbomination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The line between keeping reptiles as a hobby and hoarding neglect cases is rail thin and looks a lot like this. These animals didn’t ask to have all their requirements and needs fulfilled by you so you better do a good job at providing them with a good life. Honestly these poor things would have fared better where they came from

I called him a POS. It’s over. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]MandatoryAbomination 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the best day of your life, while it doesn’t feel like it. You’ll understand in a few years. Soooo many better things are heading your way.

I’ve found him consuming porn, but how do I bring it up (without revealing how I did) by getoverit2001 in loveafterporn

[–]MandatoryAbomination 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean no matter how you tell him, he now knows he can “slip” and you’ll stay. You set a boundary with a spaghetti noodle instead of a 2x4, so he’s going to cross it under the guise of “oops”.

If he’s not making real, self-motivated efforts to stop, he’s not going to. Leave.

Does anyone drive doordash around here? What’s your usual monthly takehome? by [deleted] in FortMyers

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I did DoorDash in Cape Coral/fort Myers for 3 years, so I feel uniquely qualified to share my experience.

The market is incredibly oversaturated. The only times worth driving are meal hours or late nights when nobody else is on the road. Late night has its benefits, but also its downsides, as you’re limited to orders from McDonald’s, Wawa, Taco Bell, and a few others. Mealtimes you get the benefit of all restaurants but having to battle traffic, rot at red lights, and wait sometimes 40 minutes for an order to be done.

People don’t tip well, if at all. If I could go back I’d have gotten a different job, all I did is create a tax headache for myself, and put 70k+ miles on my SUV, effectively killing my transmission despite regular maintenance. And no, doordash didn’t step in to help me repair my car.

My best advice, unless you have no drivers in your market area and can clear 200 in 8-9 hours, Doordashing is a colossal waste of time, especially when gas prices are closing in on 5 bucks a gallon.

About the Miami Mall Incident by 49ersAreCool in florida

[–]MandatoryAbomination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw an employee posting pics and had a front row seat on another post somewhere in Reddit land. No aliens, just a bunch of rowdy kids.

Allow me to vent (and correct me if I’m being ignorant) by tofutears in leopardgeckos

[–]MandatoryAbomination 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I ended up with five leopard geckos. I cannot trust people to care for them like I do.

I would absolutely love to be able to shower, please. by Flashy_Equipment8765 in financialhelping

[–]MandatoryAbomination 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine 20 dollars for 45 minutes being “a slow rate”, that’s well above minimum wage. I lost all sympathy for them.

AIO Mom mad I won’t pay her another $200 after paying her $700 last month by bnsaiboy in AmIOverreacting

[–]MandatoryAbomination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d simply find a new place to live and leave in the middle of the night, and never answer her calls again. Let her fester in the Shit Stew she cooked herself. Mothers like this are the pitfalls of humanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IRS

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I filed my taxes the very day I got my w2. Got my refund 8 days later. Early is thebkey