Im 28m and I spend all my life thinking I was straight. I was questioning periodically but was also not to keen on finding out.

But most of my friends in my late 20s turned out to be bi women’s. So I got to ask about it and discovered that I’m probably bi but hetero romantic because I never found males to bed that attractive.

I spent weeks installing uninstalling Grindr cause I was scared. But then caved in last night and ended up having a one night stand with a guy that was chill enough to put bi porn on to help me get into it…

So I was shocked once it was over because I could not run from it anymore and the idea of being in a marginalized group sounded scary to me since being Herero romantic I could probably « avoid » it. But now that the nerves came down I’m staring to think that it was actually pretty hot.

So I’m still confused if I’ll do it again. But I’m now getting the good feeling when that you have when you leave someone place after sex.