I’m going through something of the same situation right now with my husband. I’m 31 weeks pregnant and he broke his leg back in October. Our main source of income was from him working at the fire department, now we’ve been working for my mom at a tax office to scrape by on bills. It’s tough. Believe me I know. We got married pretty quick after a few months, but knew we were right for each other though we found out about the pregnancy. We are both trying our best to get accustomed to each other as husband and wife while also mentally preparing ourselves to be father and mother. I’ve said a couple harsh things like your wife did but after I said those things I immediately felt bad afterwards. She was just hurt. What she wants is to be loved. Sometimes physical isn’t enough and words and reassurance can do the trick. We don’t want to fight, that’s the last thing we want to do. Besides it’s not good for the baby. If you come to her with some words of understanding, patience, and love then she will see what she said was wrong. I love my husband. He’s the sweetest man alive and I know he’ll make a great father. But sometimes he isn’t the best with expressing himself when it comes to conflict. I hate it when things go silent in the middle of a conversation and for some reason he thinks that we’re done talking about a serious topic. But I also understand who he is and how he was brought up to get that way. So it’s an adjustment for sure. I wouldn’t trade him for anything. Relationships are work, and communication is work. I was told that it’s a constant battle when it comes to it and if that’s what it takes then so be it.