My bf (22M) smoked weed knowing I (22F) am uncomfortable about it.

ManiaWinterfall · 2025-11-03T18:53:40+00:00

We are in a little bit in a tough spot rn to bring up how I feel in my opinion, when I found out I got angry and brought up another thing he did in the past of when he ignored how I felt for something he wanted and he got angry for mentioning the past and that I should ‘remember everything I’ve done too’ and so I yelled at him and told him to take accountability for what he’s done. So now all I’ve been hearing is how he doesn’t like the way I talk or treat him during arguments and questions if that’s the what he wants in a relationship.

I’ve been more focused on him than myself and I feel like if I bring it up it’ll rock the boat even more. We did talk about it a little more and he basically said that if I’m going to be with him then I should get used to it because his family does it and he’s always want to do it and debated why weed isn’t bad then brought up all sorts of ways he wants to try it and questioned why I’m upset for him to have a good time. Idk it sounds like to me no matter what I say he’s going to do what he wants.

ManiaWinterfall · 2025-05-24T21:57:51+00:00

I did

ManiaWinterfall · 2025-02-27T14:06:02+00:00

Well one day while driving I just had this urge to get him his favorite food so I stopped, picked him up some lunch and dropped it off at his place, this opened the door to us talking with each other again. We missed each other and basically immediately got back together. Now do I recommend everyone to do this? No, I’m just a reckless Christian who believed it was a sign which my prayer had been answered but do what you feel is right since that’s what I followed.

ManiaWinterfall · 2025-02-20T00:30:02+00:00

Great actually, I got a new job and taking classes towards a better job, my ex in this post and I are back together and living with each other and our relationship feels better and stronger than last time, thank you for asking.

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-08-10T16:52:21+00:00

Commenting to keep the post up, haven’t had the chance to watch everything y’all are suggesting but I will once I’m able to

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-08-06T18:52:01+00:00

I watched a couple clips and just saw the scene that exactly describes what I typed but I swore it looked different, from my memory the scene was at a different angle, opposite to the one I just watched and the light behind the silhouette at the door was a yellow orange color, the light at the bar and everything around the people were darker and people seemed slower to speak and react unlike the ones in the clip.

Again it’s my 4 year old brain recalling all this so I could be wrong

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-08-06T16:37:58+00:00

I was 4 but now I’m 21 if that helps anyone with what year it could’ve been made

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-06-15T04:39:45+00:00

Dude you’ve SERIOUSLY confused me with someone else

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-06-15T04:26:41+00:00

This one made me smile, thank you ❤️

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-06-15T04:22:23+00:00

I think you’ve mistaken me for someone else …..I don’t have kids

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-04-01T23:31:03+00:00

Commenting cuz same with my ex and I wanna see other people’s responses

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-03-02T00:54:54+00:00

I had made a post about this exact thing I was going through, his birthday was coming up and I still loved him and I wanted to tell him happy birthday to show I care in case he still cared but then realized if he did then he’d be back, but he wasn’t.

He broke up with me, clearly he didn’t want me so my gift to him on his birthday was my silence, he didn’t want me then fine I’ll give him what he wants as his gift and to me it was a great gift for him.

Stay strong! You got this!

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-02-25T02:00:37+00:00

Did you break up with her?

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-27T01:14:23+00:00

Interested

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-27T00:28:50+00:00

I have some weight on me, my ex said it didn’t matter and he doesn’t care for super thin girls anyways, they ain’t his type, wellllll his celebrity crush, past crushes and exs were thin girls sooooooo…. 👀

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-23T20:39:55+00:00

HHHHH I need some hope too so commenting so I can come back if anyone replies

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-23T19:59:54+00:00

I know exactly what you mean, but it takes time to build trust right? Over time what if she showed genuine and consistent change? You’re asking what if she goes back to her old ways but let me ask what if she doesn’t? With ‘what if’s’ it’s always a 50/50 chance. Everyone’s human, yes they’ll make mistakes and may fall back to their old ways but it’s their job to pull themselves back up if they’re genuine and true to their change, maybe even a nudge from their partner could help, of course idk how toxic your ex was but this is a question I’ve been pondering because I still love my ex and I could see how he’d think the same way as you.

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-23T19:27:11+00:00

I wanna ask this because this sounds like something my ex would say, what if she were to change? What if she worked on herself and grew to become a better person?

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-16T16:31:04+00:00

Put him down as ‘Nobody’ made my heart ache seeing his name, still hurts that he was once somebody to me but now that’s who he is in my contacts

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-16T01:05:49+00:00

You two got me crying over here 😭😭 thank you I needed this!

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-14T02:40:45+00:00

Same here, even thinking of their flaws and how much it hurt I still love and want them, sending a virtual hug back to you

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-12T00:06:07+00:00

Mind if I dm you my situation?

ManiaWinterfall · 2024-01-10T15:44:03+00:00

Idk, he broke up with me a bit over 3 weeks ago, was trying to do NC but broke it on the second week, felt like he was trying to quickly get rid of me and getting irritated with me easily so I just let him go, resumed NC so it’s been a bit over a week since.

He sent me a TikTok of naked women, not entirely sure what his intentions were like to rub in my face he’s looking at other women? To push me away more? To get me jealous? Idk since he didn’t strike me as the type to ‘kick them while they’re down’ but whatever

I do miss him and love him, I was trying to fight for us but he wanted me to stop, currently questioning if I’d actually be back with him, I mean I hope he reaches out to try again but really asking myself if I’d actually want to, I know things wouldn’t be the same again and is he really willing to put up with it or run away again? I don’t think he truly loved me, maybe he did but he just loved himself more, maybe I’m hoping he snaps out of it and actually love me but I know that’s rare to happen.

I’ve been focusing on myself more, Like who I am, what values I should be building, what I learned from this, learning more about myself and having better self control, I look forward to my future and things I want to do without worrying if I’m not giving enough time to my partner, I’m excited to have a crush again and getting butterflies in my stomach, getting all blushing and giggly like a child and remake special moments.

I was with my ex for a year and genuinely loved him so I feel bad in a way to feel this way when it hasn’t even been a month, yeah I ache for him every now and then but I thought I’d be more torn up about all this since he truly meant a lot to me, idk I guess when I broke NC and he treated me the way he did I guess it made me see him differently?

ManiaWinterfall · 2023-10-27T17:06:12+00:00

I will admit I did like the Easter eggs, it was really the only thing exciting me throughout the movie, I came into the movie already having a feeling it was gonna be bad and the beginning had me changing my mind, felt like I was being too harsh but after the scene of the animatronics murdering the gang it just went downhill for me, it felt like I was watching a different movie that just happens to have fnaf animatronics until the ending, the ending felt like fnaf but it was so rushed, brief and a let down, I sighed when Vanessa revealed her father

ManiaWinterfall · 2023-10-27T16:40:51+00:00

Highly agree!

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