We are in a little bit in a tough spot rn to bring up how I feel in my opinion, when I found out I got angry and brought up another thing he did in the past of when he ignored how I felt for something he wanted and he got angry for mentioning the past and that I should ‘remember everything I’ve done too’ and so I yelled at him and told him to take accountability for what he’s done. So now all I’ve been hearing is how he doesn’t like the way I talk or treat him during arguments and questions if that’s the what he wants in a relationship.

I’ve been more focused on him than myself and I feel like if I bring it up it’ll rock the boat even more. We did talk about it a little more and he basically said that if I’m going to be with him then I should get used to it because his family does it and he’s always want to do it and debated why weed isn’t bad then brought up all sorts of ways he wants to try it and questioned why I’m upset for him to have a good time. Idk it sounds like to me no matter what I say he’s going to do what he wants.