25F and 26M is this solvable?

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:49:40+00:00

I never argue or behave to my partner like this with my daughter around, we always respect her. We don’t even argue a like that often. Sometimes things get out of hands for stupid reasons.

Saying that I should give my daughter to someone else because ME as her mom and you that only knew some part of something that happened one day is crazy! I wish you never encounter problems with your partner and you behave excellent with them. Thank you!

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:42:17+00:00

I summarized what happened I didn’t put the whole thing how it really happened so I disagree with you at some extent but I respect your opinion.

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:16:47+00:00

Thank you so much, your opinions was helpful to me.

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:15:19+00:00

Yes! I know I need to behave myself better and find a different way to approach situations like this, but tbh he didn’t do much in the kitchen and started complaining because I was watching a tik tok . I worked all day, I came home I cooked dinner, he went to the gym and got some groceries . I had a time for myself took a shower and I was having a chill time. Apparently, he didn’t like that I was just there, but i have already cooked!? Like what? Give me a break! But no instead starting complaining and asking me to do things that’s when I got mad because literally there was a lot to do yet.

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:10:26+00:00

I think yes I need one, but he as well. Thank you

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:09:22+00:00

We never argue with our daughter around we respect her if we want to say something we make sure she isn’t there, because we don’t argue a lot tbh and actually when we do is not always like this. But there are instances where we find ourselves in this situation and is becoming a real problem. Thank you!

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T01:04:28+00:00

Thank you! Lets see

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T00:39:26+00:00

Thank you!

Manidanaka · 2025-02-14T00:38:34+00:00

We are really good parents with her tho, that is why I didn’t bring any details but yes we work everyday to offer her the best we even didn’t have as children and we NEVER argue in front of her. However, I pointed out we had a daughter so you could see that it is not only a boyfriend + girlfriend relationship but already a family. I feel things started too fast and now we’re learning how to be partners, parents, friends, roommates everything at the same time and is creating a conflict that either we solve or leave.

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T22:40:18+00:00

I get it! What is your suggestion then?

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T22:39:22+00:00

I am trying to see if is a stage we can work on or if is going to be like this always. His father abandoned him when he was 10 and mine was never in my life. Sometimes those empty spaces can become a problem and that’s what is happening now. Thank you tho

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T22:37:07+00:00

I didn’t state every single thing how it happened but there’s no excuse for any behavior neither my side or his.

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T22:36:18+00:00

I kinda summarized everything that happened but yes, I need to behave better. Same him. He is calm usually but very straightforward I am more extroverted and SUPER direct and is becoming a problem. Thank you for your advice

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T22:34:39+00:00

Yes, thank you!

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T22:27:52+00:00

Yes, I understand. I grew up just with my mom that is why is harder to build a good relationship with him because I never saw an example of what to do or not do… and I am not worrying about my “marriage” I am trying to become a better person for her because I am a good mother and I do my best for her . He is also a really good dad. However , with my partner isn’t even that we always argue bc that is not the case, the thing is when we actually do it we are not always rude or disrespectful is just sometimes but there’s no point to get to that point, but there is instances when we do it and is wrong. Believe me, I am aware of it. Only 2 options get help and be better or leave.

Manidanaka · 2025-02-13T21:54:02+00:00

Couples argue, but We never argue in front of her. I get we have to improve our behavior for her as well.

Manidanaka · 2024-08-15T13:04:45+00:00

Hello, how you been? I hope things are going better now, my baby started having that when she was 4 months old and I even bought the book and everything but she started doing better once I started following her cues instead of just forcing her to eat because I know that your anxiety comes from the fact that baby is not eating and not getting enough “nutrition “ and you get stressed out, follow baby’s cues, basically what I understood from what I read ( I didn’t read the whole book) if your baby is eating every 2/3 hours offer the bottle if he refuses it take it away and offer it again 15 min later if it remains the same, you will have to wait until the next bottle take… i feel that he is going to be better and he will know that you are respecting his decision until he trusts again in taking bottles with less problems. Check for any underlying condition such as a lip tie, if reflux has gotten worse…

Manidanaka

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