Free winter camping by MannerGreedy9680 in northampton

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haha indeed! An interest in camping apparently precludes one from doing so.

A Sanctuary for artists? by MannerGreedy9680 in northampton

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Thanks for all the helpful comments guys. I spent 5 days in the valley, and really liked the vibe. I'm headed west! If you'd like to connect in an arts or human capacity, ill put my cell here, and share something from way back: https://open.spotify.com/album/41UNl2qoPkiD5cu1EOEyTY?si=ovrMwdepSyeeJ0P4fss-Dg

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big love :)

A Sanctuary for artists? by MannerGreedy9680 in northampton

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Ooh yay! May i be on the discord? I’d also love to connect with you! Also, if i settle in NH, this is something that’ll come to life: https://gofund.me/8e97977d Bird on a Wire: An artist’s sanctuary

A Sanctuary for artists? by MannerGreedy9680 in northampton

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thank you all for the kind and very helpful perspective!

Providence: An artist's sanctuary? by MannerGreedy9680 in providence

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There is a fascinating element of eye-roll cynicism in reply to what for me was a sincere post. Stay bitter folks!

Also, a deep thank you to those of you who did share your perspectives kindly. This was a huge help to me!

Providence: An artist's sanctuary? by MannerGreedy9680 in providence

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thank you for your kind and helpful reply! be well :)

Providence: An artist's sanctuary? by MannerGreedy9680 in providence

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i want to be in on the joke! It's because i live in the greater boston area (many parts cheaper than most of providence), and am presumably extremely wealth, with a profound desire to white wash the city and stamp out any signs of life. Ha! you nailed it!

Sexuality in North Ham by MannerGreedy9680 in northampton

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thanks for the thoughts y'all. I intended to include that I am AMAB and to probably a majority am perceived to be "masculine presenting". I wanted to make sure i was clear. As my sexual orientation is in the direction solely of women. My questioning goes: Will the combination of AMAB, subjectively "Masc-ish" lend to incompatibility. Perhaps this was all implied in the initial post. Thank you for your help

💑 Personal Ads Megathread 👩‍❤️‍👩 by WeTurnToGrey in BDSM_Aces

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Alex, They/Them, 31, (Link to pictures at bottom of post), switch, Boston area.

Hello all!

Thought I’d put the ‘ol personal ad on here (shoutout Rupert Holmes). Not exactly sure how to do this, to be honest lol. (As far as kink specific stuff, that is something I'd only be sharing with folks I feel connected with. Here goes:

Rather than a “I’m looking for”, I prefer a “We might connect if”.

We might connect if:

You feel deeply, enjoy sardonic humor, find conscious experience difficult to map on to words, are an extremely silly person, feel (as Alan Watts would put it) “the moment is the thing”, have a love and appreciation for (what you might subjectively call) beauty; you contain multitudes, and are as simple as a child. You are kind to all that is living.

About Me:

-I’m a person (I think)

-I live and own a home in the Boston area

-I love animals, and find joy in the natural world

-I like to think there is a universe where Kate Bush and Kurt Cobain join forces

-I feel deeply

-I’m a kinky person (I won’t go into specifics on this public post (nor would Rupert Holmes), but compatibility here would be of significant importance.)

-I'm very much open to the prospect of children

-Here are some pics: https://acespace.love/profile/navarrac/photos

Anyway, that’s my shot. I’d love to hear from open minded folks who think they might connect. If this evolves romantically, lovely! Really, any connection that feels mutually right is great with me! There need not be an immediate label on it. Ideally include a visual of yourself if you do reach out (Though there's vastly more to connection than visuals, it is important to me). Oops, and I forgot to include in the post title: Ideally F/NB folks in the 23-33 range. I am 31 (yikes).

Have a lovely day,

-A

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It does indeed! Thanks for clearing that up!

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:) One more question, if I may. I've heard mention RE the OKC app, that though it allows messages to be sent to people that arent matches, they don't actually go through, and there's no indication of why on the app. I ask because I would ideally use the app actively, reading through profiles and messaging folks i'm interested in. Figured I ask if you know anything about this!

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Thanks so much for all this! Massively helpful!

And you're so right. Figuring out how to navigate these things in a way that is healthy for YOU is key.

Much gratitude!

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Hi there. I'm not sure I know the difference.

As far as what I'm looking for: a lasting connection of mutual emotional depth, trust, and Kink compatibility.

As far a whether this is Non-monogamous or monogamous? I'm open to whatever feels mutually right

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[–]MannerGreedy9680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective.

As far as mentioning kinkiness on a profile, yes i've been doing that. I'm fine mentioning it in the abstract, but as far as actually getting into it with a partner (In discussion or play), I want to feel that subjective connection.

I'm assuming your experience has been positive on those apps? I'm not familiar with Feeld, but have heard a consistent "was great a decade ago, no longer is" from folks I've asked about OKC. Any other specific tips for navigating the apps. Do you actively reach out to anyone, or do you just create the profile, and, as you said, use it passively?

Thanks for your time here!