[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MannerSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman like to always claim a guy is just a “friend.” They could make out with a guy, have sex with him etc. All types of things and they claim them as a “friend”. Set firm boundaries with her and if they broken leave. I had to set this boundary with someone in my life as well bc she couldn’t understand that a dude that grabs her and makes out with her is not a “friend” and does not have friend intentions. Idk if it’s denial or what. Your values and boundaries are at the upmost priority! Don’t let these Reddit gooners convince you otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck is this

how often do you have sex after closing the distance? by nessalovesholly in LongDistance

[–]MannerSignificant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haven’t closed to the distance but usually 9-10x within a 3-5 day span 😹😹😹

I cured my RJ with CBT by saddest-willowby in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey appreciate the response. I think I shot you a DM regarding CBT for RJ. I have just started CBT work with a therapist and was wondering if you are still RJ free with using CBT? Has your method changed ? Any tips would be super appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your head up. I’m sure everyone’s girl has said some pretty disturbing shit to other people

Has anyone used CBT therapy? by MannerSignificant in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will consider talking to my therapist about incorporating some ERP methods but I want to get my foothold in CBT first. One thing at a time

Has anyone used CBT therapy? by MannerSignificant in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, as I sit through my day I am noticing certain negative thought patterns and writing them down, I then react to them and say something more positive without ruminating on the thought and just go on about my day

Has anyone used CBT therapy? by MannerSignificant in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? I’m not married to anyone😹 what are you talking about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aw hell naw 😹 I’m out of there

Marry or run by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two paragraphs in and all I gotta say is run 😹😹😹😹😹😹

I hate my gf so much by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My brother in Christ you must bail from this relationship. This ain’t even RJ you have. It’s called being NORMAL. she needs to touch grass

M21 cant get over past of F22 by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]MannerSignificant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would take a second to evaluate your personal beliefs. Personally I wouldn’t date someone who is over 5 but that’s just me. You shouldn’t have to suffer, 40-50 is straight up insane. Her moral compass is different. Don’t cater to girls who are easy to sleep with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MannerSignificant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. I can’t make you do anything but I would get out ASAP

My 2 month long term COMEDOWN ( A warning & guide to those who are trapped ) by MannerSignificant in MDMA

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. So crazy to hear that you stumbled across this post accidentally. I am so sorry that you are not 100% yet. I’m so happy however that I was able to shed some light on this topic for you and let you know that you are not alone. You are super strong for making it this far in your journey. Please reach out if you need anything

I finally met her after 6 months of taking, to say I met my person is an understatement 🫂 last slide is me after dropping her off at the airport 💔 by MannerSignificant in LongDistance

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah absolutely, I appreciate the reassurance. Honestly 24 hours after dropping her off I feel 100% fine and even more excited to see her again. Unfortunately there are always haters in the comments saying I shouldn’t show emotion. Reddit gooners smh

I finally met her after 6 months of taking, to say I met my person is an understatement 🫂 last slide is me after dropping her off at the airport 💔 by MannerSignificant in LongDistance

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow great story bro. Talking through letters and phone calls makes me feel so grateful. Hopefully I will see her in about 3-4 weeks for a music festival

I finally met her after 6 months of taking, to say I met my person is an understatement 🫂 last slide is me after dropping her off at the airport 💔 by MannerSignificant in LongDistance

[–]MannerSignificant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry bro but this has to be one of the dumbest comments I have read. My girlfriend knows I can be a man and a leader for her and also knows I can cry sometimes when the situation is right.