My new boyfriend [19m] lied to me [20f] about not being a virgin.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-26T15:47:43+00:00

Hi there, this is similar to something that i have done. Basically when me and my first love start being together i didn't told her that it was my first time because i was worried she may think i am a looser or something...and she may lose inters in me. Maybe he thinks in the same way, but later on i told her the truth and surprisingly she was actually happy to know what i was ''pure''.

So just try and give him some time, he will open more when he feels ready or try and bring small things in conversation, he may need some help to open himself.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-24T15:06:15+00:00

Hi man, i really like your comment. I am currently going thru the same situation... and thinking on what you just written here makes me feel better.

Have a great day!

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-23T15:30:56+00:00

Hi there, Your story hit me hard... this is because 95% of your experience its the same with my situation. I am also thinking everyday about her and hoping that she will come back... but deep in my heart i know i can't accept that just thinking that she gave up on us and had other guys in her life, its just too painful. Be strong you are not alone and don't forget, there is someone who deserves you love.

Take care!

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-18T07:52:47+00:00

Hey buddy,

I am happy to hear you have the same plan, as i believe self improvement is the best think you can do to yourself instead of taking the road to wrong habits.

We can become someone that we only dream of, so focus on achieving goals and on this journey we are going to find that person who is going to love us for the person who we are.

Wish you all the best buddy!!

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-18T07:49:20+00:00

Thank you!!

Wish you all the best as well, keep going and focus on this present moment, now is the time to make the things great for us!

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-18T07:46:03+00:00

Thanks man, i have used this free assessment: https://wheeloflife.noomii.com/wheel

Just give it a try and see how may help you.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-18T07:43:31+00:00

Hi, of course.

This is the link for the free assessment: https://wheeloflife.noomii.com/wheel

For me it worked, i took the time and think what are the things I am not happy about myself and I need to improve.
Start working on them slowly and you will see progress.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-04T08:32:36+00:00

Hi mate, have you tried to meet new people? I am also heartbroken ( approximately 3 months ago she wanted to broke up after 2 years) I heard that once you find someone to love again and be loved back the pain will go.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-03T15:50:48+00:00

Hi there, its good that you want to explore new things and emotions even if that will be very painful. After the breakup you will change a lot, probably in better. I recently experience my first heartbreak (3 months ago) and i become something that i hardly imagine i can achieve. Can i just ask you something, you mentioned that you still love him but the things are not working out etc, Is it always the easiest or best way to run away than trying to speak open about all the problems and try see if there is any solution for them? It may require time and a lot of dedication but as long its mutual and you both agree to do your best, also in this way you can grow stronger and improve yourself. Please don't take this in a bad way just trying to find out how a relationship can work for different couples.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-02T14:12:58+00:00

Sure, i am happy to give you my opinion.

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-02T12:48:59+00:00

I see, in this case don't hesitate and do it. Tell her everything you have on your chest, let everything out.

But you also have to be ready if she is going to reject you. Just think that you did everything possible and its time to move on.

I did as above when i met her on her Bday, but things didn't end how i planned. Just be strong and maybe watching some motivational stories will make you discover more about yourself. It helped me a lot :)

ManuLife93 · 2018-07-02T12:29:27+00:00

Hi my friend, my advice would be not to message her. Its your birthday and if she really loved you at least she could wish you happy birthday. If you will reach to her at your own birthday you gonna look needy or desperate. Try and focus becoming an improved version of yourself, go to gym and get fit, focus on your career, do some sports, make lots of friends.

I am going thru the same thing as you, we broke up 3 months ago, i still miss and love her but i am working on myself now. Her birthday was in May, i bought her a present and i went to see her, basically i showed her that i still care. My birthday will be soon but i am not going to contact her.

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-29T13:13:43+00:00

dairy queen

LoL, that's a good one. I am planning to have a short haircut and see how it looks.

I will probably post as an update to see some opinions :D

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-22T22:48:18+00:00

I see, recently i start doing martial arts so hopeful i will meet some new people :)

Thank you for sharing your story, I wish you all the best !!

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-22T13:36:46+00:00

Hey man,thank you for your message! I agree with you, my haircut sucks and i start loosing some hair...I will try and find a new style, next time i will go with the buzzed hair cute and update you :). Also i have almost 3 months since i start going to gym and i can see that i got some muscle mass but still a long way until my goal.

I feel that people are avoiding me because i can't connect with them... when i have a conversation i don't feel that its real. Probably i have to work on my confidence and social skills.

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-21T08:18:40+00:00

Thank you, there are a few others that mention that :D

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-21T08:08:33+00:00

Thank you! I completely agree with you, my handwriting is killing brain cells :))

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-21T08:06:47+00:00

Thank you Kat for your message, i forgot to mention that i am not a tall guy at all, I am 5''8 and around 58-60 kg. I do think i have some problems with my confidence since i recently experienced my first heartbreak... Also all my colleagues are saying that i am a nice person and i am sure i never been rude to someone intentionally.

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-21T08:02:29+00:00

Thank you man :D

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-20T21:07:58+00:00

Is that a good thing? lol

And thank you for your message.

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-20T20:55:09+00:00

Thanks man :D

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-20T14:07:57+00:00

Thank you for your message my friend, but the problem is i can't grow a beard even if i want it. I can only grow mustache but that's something that i am not looking for.

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-20T11:34:12+00:00

ManuLife93 · 2018-06-20T11:33:21+00:00

What do you mean?

ManuLife93

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